shesmaudlin Posted August 16, 2019 Share Posted August 16, 2019 So I sent a text saying “hey I just wanted to say that I love you! That is all.” With a heart emoji at the end to the guy I talked about in my last thread. It was copied and pasted from a text I had sent to a friend. I wanted to see his reaction to it, see if he would ignore it or say it back or if he’d maybe change the subject quickly. He replied with “poop” and “thought I replied lol” (referring to the last text I sent him) so I just said “disregard that last message” (the one where I said I love you) and he said “no lol” and then he replied with “I love you more” I was a little bit shook and I sent a heart and said “just felt like giving my love lol. Sorry if I’m weird.” Then “wyd” and then he goes “waiting for you to send a pic of that ass” with a smiley face. Was feeling a little relieved about his text before until he said that, then I’m just like welp. 🙄 (yes we are in our 20s so I know how childish this sounds) would you say something like that after telling someone you love them? Like he figured “hey I did her a favor and said it back, send me nudes?” Idk bruh I’m confused lol Link to comment
Cherylyn Posted August 16, 2019 Share Posted August 16, 2019 I wouldn't be confused. His last comment about "waiting for you to send a pic of that ____" and asking you to send him pics of you nude was extremely disdainful. You should be done with this guy. He sounds like a jerk! Link to comment
Cherylyn Posted August 16, 2019 Share Posted August 16, 2019 He doesn't love you. He's treating you as if you're a piece of meat. You need to move and consider this guy history. Link to comment
boltnrun Posted August 16, 2019 Share Posted August 16, 2019 You consider asking for nudes "flirting"? Link to comment
RedDress Posted August 16, 2019 Share Posted August 16, 2019 You are the one playing games, btw. Making up “tests” (when they don’t know they are being “tested”) to gauge someone’s reaction rather than having a mature conversation is a game. (Oops - my post posted before I was done) Games are really confusing and frustrating, I agree. Because people don’t always behave in ways we want or expect them to - and then what does that do to the test?!? Argh! And that’s what this post is about. - you told him you loved him - he tried to ignore it - you didn’t like that answer so you called him on it Now he’s in a tough spot. Now he has to either say “love you too” or have a big weird conversation over text about it. He decided not to go the monologue route and just be playful Then he asked for nudes because it was all totally awkward and not at all what he wanted to talk about and he’d rather talk about sex than feelings I agree that a relationship is not what he wants. My opinion stands from your last thread. I think he likes you as a person, cares about you, but does not want a relationship. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted August 16, 2019 Share Posted August 16, 2019 This is the long distance friend who you fly to to hook up with occasionally. Is he married/in a relationship?. Perhaps the poop emoji says it all. He's a turd. But for whatever reason sexting this guy excites you. Why send copy/pasted spam? Maybe that's what the 💩 was about? You send nonsense, he sends nonsense and then you hookup now and then. Pure bliss. I sent a text saying “hey I just wanted to say that I love you! That is all.” He replied with “poop” Link to comment
shesmaudlin Posted August 16, 2019 Author Share Posted August 16, 2019 It wasn’t a poop emoji lol, he sent the word poop (his way of saying damn he says idk) but anyways I guess thanks for the kind words Link to comment
shesmaudlin Posted August 16, 2019 Author Share Posted August 16, 2019 Okay thank you lol, explains a lot Link to comment
shesmaudlin Posted August 16, 2019 Author Share Posted August 16, 2019 We’ve sent nudes before so yeah I guess Link to comment
shesmaudlin Posted August 16, 2019 Author Share Posted August 16, 2019 Yeah that makes sense. Thank you Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted August 16, 2019 Share Posted August 16, 2019 Are you limited to just a few words at a time or texting limits because of a phone plan or financial problem or do your parents limit your phone use? Link to comment
katrina1980 Posted August 16, 2019 Share Posted August 16, 2019 Yeah that makes sense. Thank you I'm sorry what makes sense? If you would hit "reply with quote" when responding to a poster it would be appreciated so we know what/who you are responding to. Thanks. Link to comment
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