All of a sudden she's stopped replying?

Hi all thanks for reading

So I've met this lovely girl who im really attracted too, she actually asked me for my number and said she'd really love to meet up a few days after talking, it all seemed fantastic we had a good laugh and a good chat. We've been talking for about a week

So I don't hear anything at all one day and decide to give her a text which she says she's having a really bad week and a bad day involving a long winded problem, which is understandable. I've mentioned that she can always talk to me.

Anyway 4 days have passed and I've heard nothing at all, I've text her just to ask if she's ok and I've had totally nothing. Is this a case she's changed her mind and I need to back off or is this somthing I just need to sit tight on? Surely she could just spare 10 seconds for a text and say I'll talk to you another time. I'm totally confused because she's gone from a total chatterbox to nothing.

People are a mystery, SecurityMan, even to themselves sometimes.

You actually did not meet her in person? Right?

No one is too busy to not be able to take the time to text or call. If you hear nothing but crickets, you can be sure that the interest is not there.

As you two are strangers, she does not owe you a thing.

She said she would reach out to you, but you continue to text her. This would really annoy me. You need to back off.

Worst case she will not reach out. Continue speaking with others.

Perhaps she broke/lost her phone.

In which case, have you been checking the sky for smoke signals?

In which case, have you been checking the sky for smoke signals?

You're bad!!

It could happen.

But I am also too cheeky for my own good right now and need my bed, very long day and the silliness ensues when I am over tired.

Just a guess but that "long winded problem" she has may concern an ex popping back in.

Pretty standard.

How long since your text asking if she's okay?

As you two are strangers, she does not owe you a thing.

 

She said she would reach out to you, but you continue to text her. This would really annoy me. You need to back off.

 

Worst case she will not reach out. Continue speaking with others.

We're not strangers we've met in person.

I've texted Saturday night and still not heard anything back. It's like people have said their can't be any true interest there if I don't hear anything.

I'm sorry

It sounds like she wasn't interested and whatever stress she was dealing with didn't want to involve you. I think you need to look around more.

Lisa

I've texted Saturday night and still not heard anything back. It's like people have said their can't be any true interest there if I don't hear anything.

You mean last night?

Don't know where you live but it's Sunday here, so hell give her some time!

Maybe she's thinking about things, what she wants or how she feels.

Yeah just let it be. I know that you like her but you guys are still strangers amd haven't met. You did all you could. Let it be

If you have nothing else better to do than troll then you must lead a very sad life, get help.

In which case, have you been checking the sky for smoke signals?

You must be the website troll?

Me? Nope. Apologies for the goofy reply. I was just trying to make a point that if she were truly interested she would have found a way to contact you by now.

I am sorry but it really doesn't look like she is interested. I know it stings when people aren't honest about how they're feeling. I hope you can meet someone that is actually interested.