Saddays33 Posted January 26, 2017 Share Posted January 26, 2017 Hi I have a sibling who has a marital partner who is making lies about me & my parents. Has been systematically trying to destroy the whole family relationship through manipulation & emotional blackmail against my sibling. I want to catchout my inlaw in a secretly recorded conversation where i can lightly touch on issues, knowing that they will likely relay to my sibling about what conversation actually took place with twisted lies, to try and further detatch my sibling from our family. Thus having evidence to pass to my sibling for a reality check.... Any suggestions on how i converse with this evil inlaw and get them to 'trip up' so to speak Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted January 26, 2017 Share Posted January 26, 2017 Is she in an abusive relationship? You need to talk to her, not her husband. Support her, butt out of their marriage. Stop playing detective and stirring the pot for drama. I have a sibling who has a marital partner who is making lies about me & my parents. I want to catchout my inlaw in a secretly recorded conversation where i can lightly touch on issues Link to comment
jennylove Posted January 26, 2017 Share Posted January 26, 2017 That in itself is pretty manipulative. I say just let it go, sit back and watch him screw up his own shiot show. Link to comment
nutbrownhare Posted January 26, 2017 Share Posted January 26, 2017 Yes, express your concerns openly and honestly to him/her, rather than being manipulative and deceitful. Otherwise you're no better than the person you want to entrap. Link to comment
Saddays33 Posted January 26, 2017 Author Share Posted January 26, 2017 Its not a he, its a she. I plan to purely strike up conversation with her asking if i can play peacemaker or similar not about their marriage but with them both treating his/my parents like dirt. I expect my offer to help will b twisted into me having threatened her or harrassed her. I don't want to get involved but my parents have done nothing to dessrve such treatment & they're ❤️ broken Link to comment
zeino Posted January 26, 2017 Share Posted January 26, 2017 Maybe because you haven't shared any examples or explanations but just quite harsh judgments, I kind of get the impression that your family may be a difficult itself. Your parents are adults, they can (at least in your perspective) get out of the victim mode (if they are not incapacitated in any sense) and the whole family can try to communicate openly to find out what is going on (not just from your family's perspective, but from everyone's). At the moment, from what you have written, you sound like a family everyone should be scared of. Maybe this is not the case and you are unintentionally representing the situation in a way that is unfair to your own family. Would you be interested in sharing details about how this started, what solutions you tried and what you could have done better maybe? Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted January 27, 2017 Share Posted January 27, 2017 Agree, stay out of it. How old are you? What do you have against her? You sibling seems fine with her. If your family or your sibling wanted to do anything about it they would.I expect my offer to help will b twisted into me having threatened her or harrassed her. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted January 27, 2017 Share Posted January 27, 2017 What are the weird symbols? 🎤 🚶. Do you think it's a troll post?scary ****. Link to comment
boltnrun Posted January 27, 2017 Share Posted January 27, 2017 What are the weird symbols? 🎤 🚶. Do you think it's a troll post? I think it's some kind of pic or icon or something that is disallowed on this forum. Link to comment
RainyCoast Posted January 27, 2017 Share Posted January 27, 2017 i get "drop the mike", but not the following hieroglyph. it must be some secret cult coded language. i fear it's not a troll. hopefully, it's a troll. who skipped the annual rabies shot. Link to comment
RainyCoast Posted January 27, 2017 Share Posted January 27, 2017 the following hieroglyph. i think the little dude looks like eminem lol. apparently he rapped about dropping the mic in 2004. it wasn't cryptic after all. we're just old and lame. Link to comment
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