dreaming about me

ex dumped me for her ex.and now 3 weeks later I get a message that she has dreams about me and one dream was that I had new girlfriend and she was pregnant and that she was so jealous of it.

Why did she tell me this?

To create drama and see if you will say something back.

Things aren't working out with the ex she went back to so she's probing the situation with you for a reaction to this. How did you respond?

ex dumped me for her ex.and now 3 weeks later I get a message that she has dreams about me and one dream was that I had new girlfriend and she was pregnant and that she was so jealous of it.

Why did she tell me this?

Who cares.. it doesnt matter. She is your X.

I don't want her to be.just I would never send anything like that to an ex ever............

Unless you wanted to throw a breadcrumb out for a hookup, right?

I don't want her to be.just I would never send anything like that to an ex ever............

Not unless I wanted to see them I suppose

She told you this, because she wants to test your strength as a man. Depending on your relationship with her and if you want her back, or how long you guys had been together - you can do one of 3 things.

1.) Make it your mission to get her back - but only if you have genuinely understood what broke you guys apart to begin with and only if you've taken the steps to fix those issues within you.

2.) Do and say nothing and move along.

3.) Reject her on the spot and have her never contact you again.

If you want her back, then this is what you need to say "Hey you, good to hear from you, would love to see you and learn more about your crazy dream, when are you free this week to get together?"

If she doesn't respond - You don't reach out again

If she responds positively - make a definite date and let that be that

If she responds in a wishy washy way - make a definite date and watch her level of interest in your choice.

If she responds positively and flakes but then contacts you again, you say the same exact thing, you ask her out. If she she is wishy washy and/or won't commit to a date - you never ask her out again, and you only respond when she contacts you first. The only way you ask her out again, is if she brings it up.

Good luck

I want her back yes.but 3 days ago she said she is giving it a do with her ex and if she has made a mistake so be it.

Block her so this nonsense and breadcrumbs don't waste your time/energy.

I want her back yes.but 3 days ago she said she is giving it a do with her ex and if she has made a mistake so be it.

Now she sends me facebook friend request.

So what do you want? Do you want to be in limbo wondering what she is doing all the time and questioning every single move she makes? Or do you just want to live your life?

Accept her request and be prepared for the pain and drama and its your fault because you asked for it.

Or.

You can not accept her request and just not care what she does and be happy.

I read that you want her back. I dont know why you would want someone that doesnt want you or will think of you as her best alternative. Just remember that if she does come back, its not because she wants you, its because she doesnt want to be alone and you were the safest option.

She wants to play games with you because it makes her feel good she is immature your better of not to respond to her nonsense unless you want to be made a tool of

I want her back yes.but 3 days ago she said she is giving it a do with her ex and if she has made a mistake so be it.

You are wasting your time she is loving this she is not mature enough for a serious relationship she will mess you around for as long as you allow her to

You are wasting your time she is loving this she is not mature enough for a serious relationship she will mess you around for as long as you allow her to

I know this because I've been that girl in the past

She's in her late 40's