ShadeOfGreen

i mean guys that aren't me. like guys that hit on her and guys at bars etc, i know her and i know she would never hurt me.

shes not, she just got out of a long serious relationship so shes kind of upset with men these days. I feel like shes not acting into me the way she used to because of this. Just not sure, like she doesn't want to be with me right now.

So I met this girl the beginning of last semester and we really hit it off. Though she had a boyfriend at the time. Though I know that she liked me and even knew that she told a friend if she wasn't with her boyfriend she would be dating me. So we stayed friends but I didn't wanna get too close cause I don't wanna be just friends. So awhile ago she called me late one night to go get a drink, sounds good. We got pretty drunk and it was clear she had an intention of trying to get in bed with me, but I don't cheat on guys girls cause thats bad news. So then we hung out a few times then I didn't see her for awhile. So then the other night we went to a show where I learned she had broken up with her boyfriend. Though she seemed really hellbent on 'f***ing' with guys, like she has a vengeance for them. So know I just don't know where I stand. Its like she went from liking me to not pretty quick. She seems to sometimes though, like she told me that the bar we were at was the first one we ever really talked at (a minor detail I thought but I notice some girls hold on to little details in guys they like). We've never hung out just the two of us at either of our places in awhile, should I just call her and try and get back in that routine? I'm just really hung up I guess.

Ok heres something thats been really bothering me lately. First of all I've always been morbidly modest/ashamed of my body. But in the last year and a half or so two things have happened. One I know have hair on my back and shoulders (which causes me great greif) and to make it worse, my hairline has receded a little bit, and the hair on top of my head has thinned some, though few people notice it, and I'm sure the problem is way bigger in my head than in reality. I was just curious about womans opinions on this whole hair thing. P.S. I've always had long hair and even worse dandruff. About two months ago (September) I finally found a shampoo/conditioner that successfully combats the dandruff (to the point that I have none at all, the combo is L'Oreal for men thickening anti-dandruff shapoo, and Head and shoulders conditioner). Since the dandruff has stopped I have noticed a lot of new hairs growing in on my forhead and on the sides of my head near my ears. Is it possible that dandruff caused the thinning hair, and if so does that mean I'll get some of my thickness back?

I'm 21 years old and about a year ago hair started growing on my back and it really drives me crazy. I don't like going to the beach anymore and I feel strange getting to know a girl in the bar cause I think she'll just be repulsed by it or something. I mean what do people actually think about that kind of thing. I've always been kinda hairy otherwise but back hair is just plain driving me crazy.

I recently moved to San Francisco leaving a very 'close' friend behind if you follow me. She was quite upset with my going (and is really the only reason I would have had to stay had we got together earlier) but now she is treating me like crap. The night before I left I went out to see some friends of mine who called me late and she was at the same bar with this kid I hate. I told her to come out and hang out with me. She said she'd be out in a few and then came out and hung out with those kids I hate. We got in a little fight but whatever and I went home. So I called her about three days after moving and she said she'd call me right back and I hung up. Never called me back. Then I called her again and she told me how she had hooked up with three kids (all losers which has me disappointed) then she acted like she was bragging about it and said she had to jump in the shower and she'd call right back. Never did. That was about two days ago. At first thought I thought she was doing it in a way to get back at me cause she was so upset i was leaving. But I don't know. I nkow that one of the girls at the bar i was with she doesn't like and maybe she thought we were there together cause we were talking all night even though we're just friends. I don't know what to think of it all and she really has me pissed cause I don't even know if I should call her again. This girl has been my best friend for years and I can't believe she would insult me this way. At any rate advice appreciated.

oh yeah, i'll be 21 may 9th

Well recently a girl whos a senior in high school has been giving me a lot of obvious attention. Now usually I don't care too much for age gaps and the like but I do see a pretty signifigant difference when it comes to dating girls in high school. Something about that just has me a little uppity. I figure shes a senior so shes a little more mature so I figure I might give her a chance. Anyway I was curious what people think about that kind of situation. To be honest I'm not even sure how interested I am.

Heres the story. I met this girl last semester in a class and we had a good time when we hung out and we were both definitely attracted to each other. I called her a few times but she never picked up and I know she didn't have an answering machine so I never left a message. The only time I got threw was to her sister and I left a message. I'm currently not in school there anymore so I havn't seen her for about three months. I havn't called her in prolly two. Anyway recently I've tried going to her workplace to see if I can find her but no luck and I went to our school and she wasn't there. She prolly thinks I'm in San Francisco (thats where I was tranferring to but probs came up) and I was wondering if it would stil be cool to call her after all this time (assuming I can even get through to her). I really want to see her but I just feel like its too late or something and that maybe I should see her in person again before trying to call her. Any suggestions?

Yea I agree. I learned long ago that matierial possesion is kinda fun but is ultimately empty. I live by the motto 'do what you love and you'll never have to work a day in your life'. This has lead to me being overall caring and giving because I am much happier by the fact that I know what I want. I don't really worry too much because I don't think about money and all the other worthless crap.

Yea you'll never really know until you try. And if you are worried about doing something wrong just aske her what to do (assuming she has experience and what not)

Well her work is about a 30 minute ride and I don't think she has an answering machine or anything but its just frustrating

I've been tryin to get a hold of this girl for about a week now and i've called her about everyday but she doesn't ever seem to be home. I have her email but I really don't dig on using email and I was wondering what the general concensus on email is. Even though she actually ahs no computer and I don't know how often she checks it anyway. The only other way I can get in touch is her work phone and i really don't think I wanna call that numero.

I got a girls number a while back. We knew eachother and were friends throughtout the semester but I didn't really hang out a lot till the end and then I got her number and she got mine. So anyways I lost my phone and with it the number but I just found it. So anyways its been like two weeks and its like its to late to call now or something. Am I just being stupid or what?

So I've been kinda dating this girl a little bit. Its nothing too serious but we've been fairly physical and we really don't take the relationship too serious just yet. I like her a lot and all but we're just not wanting to get too involved. Anyway, a couple of nights ago at a friends party I hooked up with a friend of mine whom i'm fairly close to. I feel bad about the whole thing but I really don't think its that big of a deal cause we've even joked about kissing other people and that it wouldn't be big deal but I'm not sure about the whole thing. I havn't told her yet and I really don't know if I should because its early in the relationship and I just don't think i have to or should. Shes also very open about sex and things and so am I and I honestly wouldn't mind if she kissed someone else as long as it was lie a one time thing and all.