lil sis

ya think a good bang would make us closer or ruin the relationship? there's quite a bit of sexual tension here between the both of us lol. i hear people say that sex ruins things but my cousin seems to have gotten closer. we still don't talk a whole lot right now. i told him how i feel about him n everythin in an email cuz i'm never home ta call or he's not home. that's another thing too, i have 2 jobs, so i hardly see him like twice a week tops. i'm comfortable around him, n i think he's good around me.... we so wanna bang tho! lol ~ lil sista

that's how i was, i talked soo little cuz i din't want my guy ta think i was stupid or somethin lol. but now i'm opening up a lil more. now i don't talk a lot cuz i feel so safe and calm with him. but we're talkin more, so don't give up. i'm sure she likes ya if she did that stuff, maybe she's like me n jus don't wanna do anythin stupid in front of ya haha. meh, stay in there bud! bye-now

i agree with y'all! my guy friend had a gf and she'd break up with him and go with another guy and then go back with him. it was horrible! she was jus using him! once the other guy'd use her up she'd go running back to him. i'm so happy for him now cuz he's moved onto someone much better for him!

my crush invited me over to his house this weekend. i wanna go, but he kinda hurt me earlier this week. i told him i'd pick him up for school everyday this week, but he got on the bus. then his cousin (my buddy who lives behind him) said that he forgot n wanted me to pick him up on tuesday, so i went but the prick got on the damn bus again! he din't apologize or talk or anythin either. i thought "well that shows how important i am to him." anyways, my other buddy got her cousin to ask him about me, and he said somethin like "i think u should go out with rachel (me)". then my crush was like "well i'll find out this weekend." but anyways: should i put the moves on or bitch at him.. or jus flirt or what? i was thinkin i'd playfully bitch at him, then jus talk and/or flirt. whatchu's think on the whole deal?

yeah, bit heavy on details.... i don't know if i'm ugly, geez. see for urself link removed that pic's kinda crappy tho.

k we went to a party together and he followed me around (he was drunk, but i wasn't), then i took him home (cuz he's too young to drive), and we talked. over all it was ace. we never really talked before that. anyways, he asked me to pick him up for school (on the way to his house), and i agreed. then i picked him up and we talked... but not that much (much easier to talk to while drunk!). then we parted at school... we looked at eachother like we were gonna say somethin but din't... then i went up to a buddy of mine standin beside him at his class door, but he went in after he seen me (but maybe that guy told him somethin.... but i don't know). then my other buddy went n asked him if i was gonna give him a ride home and he said he would if she got his sweater (his shirt was all chalk ), but he went home wit his buddy. yeah anyways... what's the deal! omg. somebody.. please tell me somethin. i don't care how insignificant u think it is, it's alright to me! k bye-now

OH YES. seems like all it took me was a lil note , then next thing ya know we're all buddy buddy n such . well we talk on msn a lot (never in person, i'm too *** lol), and he knew i liked him.. but it was the note. then we went to a party together, i gave him ride home (we talked quite a bit doin that ) it was the note. the note is my hero. i praise the note, lol. now i'm gonna be givin him a ride ta school on monday - we'll hafta see how that goes . well i jus thought i'd share what worked for me! bye-now!

movies is a good idea, BUT DO NOT PICK THE MOVIE. let the date do that. i found out the guy i like has a dumb taste in movies, lol.

well he wrote back n said that he don't like goin to the movies, but he did invite me to a party tomarrow night, so that should be ace . we're both incredibally shy.. so yea, that makes it hard.

ok: first we talk on the phone for like an hour (he's drunk but it was still ace. he was singin to me hehe then i ask him to the movies and he says "piss on the matrix, i'm buyin a case" (not to me directly, but to one of his friends i got to ask), then he asks when i'm gonna take him to see the matrix (but i think perhaps someone might have been lyin to me about that), we talk on msn all the time (good convos), we rarely ever talk in person, we're always lookin at eachother, and now... i give him a note. it was jus a buncha "haha" stuff at the beginning, but then at the end i said "so what do i hafta say to getcha to come to the movies wit me?" and i explained how he should jus tell me if he don't wanna. i'm scared. it seems like he likes me back, but then there's stuff that makes me think, "ok, so u don't like me" he's kind of a shy guy too, but geez, i try to make it easy on him n he's not responding! i jus gave it to him today, but there's still nothin yet.

yes! call!! do it! girls would love the call... i wish the guy i'm on about would call me, i'd call him, but i'm scared. so jus call her dammit!

i think movies are alright, instead of thinkin about during the movie, think about after or before, hello, u got a subject to talk about! cuz for me, the theatre is quite a ways away, so there's lots of time to talk for me. but yea.. i think it's great because i'm rather shy, and we don't really talk that much, so i think it'd be a good idea. if it's a good experience yay! if it's bad, u can joke around about it later! oh and i like the dark

what i do is sneak in from the back. u get in wit friends of friends, then friends, then linger around there for a while... then finally say somethin. i think u shouldn't be askin how to get noticed, because what after that? if she's shy she prolly won't jus go up to u. the way i jus said is taking forever (like 4 months now), but it's finally startin to pay off. and do stuff, like go to parties, people will talk aboutcha if ur a crazy mofo. they'll be like "ja hear what (whatever ur name is) did?!?! that crazy mofo!", and of course she'll hear and everythin. so parties=good good luck boi

ok, i asked him to the movies and he says "piss on the matrix, i'm buyin a case this weekend" (i din't even mean that weekend!) then when i was talkin to his lil cousin on msn he told her to ask me when i was gonna take him to see the matrix, then i said that i thought he said to piss on the matrix and he said that he had practise or somethin, then i said i din't believe him. then he came online and i said "so ya wanna see the matrix eh?" and he says "maybe" wtf! but then we talked till like 3 in the mornin! i tell his friends to tell him to call me, and he says to tell me to call him, so i made the invite to the matrix, and i asked him if he wanted to go for a ride but he let me down. i don't get him! i never actually had a real convo in person wit him b4, we always look at eachother like we wanna say somethin n stuff.. so anyways, any input? ideas?? should i jus drop him?? (don't wanna do that tho!)

r u sure u gave her the right numer?? sure she has somethin to sendja txt msgs thru? maybe u ran outta time? maybe she's too shy to do anything??? u should get her number. say somethin like: o, i din't getchur #. or somethin like that. if u talk to her often i can't see why u'd be shy. but yea, it's always better if the guys ask.. i think neways. it shows confidence... and thatchu really like her.