Dating my girlfriend for about 3 years now, at the start we were very intimate, sex about 5 times a week, possibly more.
For the last maybe year or so, I've noticed that she isn't sexually attracted to me anymore, she never initiates things, so the more she doesn't want to have the sex, the more I want to because I have needs like any other male.
I'm good looking and have recently toned up my body in an attempt to reignite that fire but it wont come.. Last night I finally got her to tell me the truth, and she told me she isn't sexually attracted to me anymore. She blames work and tiredness but I'm pretty sure there is more to it than that.
On the flip side, emotionally we are all good, we cuddle, we say we love each other and all that fuzzy crap but has me being too affectionate caused her to loose any sexual desire for me? I'm starting to believe that the nice guys always loose because it always seems like the self centered arrogant s always get girls.
If you're girlfriend isn't sexually attracted to you anymore, dose this mean she is sexually attracted to someone else? We're only young so I'm pretty sure she still has a libido but just no desire for me.
Have I permanently lost her sexual desire by becomming too nice and afectionate towards her? What should I do people? Please help, any comments will be deepy appreciated.