uksister Posted April 1, 2007 Share Posted April 1, 2007 Hi ENA's - i was here about 2 years ago after a horrible break up. Well i am back. Although i got over the heart break , i am still having troubles. About a few weeks ago , i met a guy online. We got along so well. We went from email to IM's. He asked to meet me in person after about 2 weeks. Well, i got scared. You see i just have no luck right now. Nothing is right. I am broke , i have a child , did i mention i was broke. anyway , i just dont feel good about myself. And to be honest , meeting him was such a surprise. I wasnt expecting it. For the past 6 months i have been a real homebody. I never go out , i have no friends , all i have is my sense of humor and a little bit of hope left for a better life. I got scared to meet him also because i wasnt exactly honest with him. I didnt mention my child , or my financial status. I believe he is well to do - so i was just embarressed. Kinda like maybe he was too good for me.Even though deep down , i know i deserve a nice man. I am a wonderful women. anyway - i got scared. So when he asked to meet , i told him i was going to the country for two weeks to visit my sister. He said i will miss you - cant wait to meet and wrote about meeting me on his facebook. I sent him a email saying goodbye and we would im soon. Except i havent heard from him. At all and in fact he is flirting with other women on his facebook. I know i shouldnt be upset , its not like we met or anything , i was just kinda excited. I know i blew it , its all my fault , its my stroke of bad luck lately. But i am still sad. My friend told me that a person could check their web log to see visitor's by ip adresses. I didnt know this and i was checking his everyday , i was supposed to be in the country. I think maybe he saw my ip adress and now knows i never left. Maybe this is why i never heard from him again?He would definetly do this. He works in computers and knows all this stuff. what would you guys do ? I havent heard from him. Like i said i would be home now from the country - would you guys contact him ? How would i come clean anyway, i am such a fraud. Should i not contact him and see if he contacts me first? sorry so long - ena helped me before , just wanted some honesty. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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