Kirst22 Posted March 11, 2007 Share Posted March 11, 2007 I've probably done something a little silly and have been hooking up with a guy from work - I mean we are both young and deserve some fun yeah.. And i know I said to him I was happy with no strings - but he is just so nice and its hard not to like him more - and we get along so well - so well that work colleagues are questioning us as to what the deal is with us. It started innocent and with lots of flirting. then we went out for work drinks and well being the last two left i somehow ended up at his place - he didnt try anything on me or make any moves throughout the night except for the general flirting and i slept on the couch. The next incident was the two of us had drinks after work - just the two of us - this time when we went back to his place i slept in his bed - but once again nothing happened and he didnt try anything one me - eventually when we went back to his place again we started to get somewhere but ended up coming to an agreement that whatever happened there would be no strings attached etc... which I agreed with and had actually guessed thats what the case would have been. (Although there is a bit more to this story as well - there was sort of another girl in the picture who he sort of had the hots for (who is over seas for 12 mths) - she was on the screen saver on his ph and has since replaced her with a person on a motorbike after our first hook up) After our last hook up to me things are just a little bit more intimate than i think i like for a casual fling - he was just way too sweet - we were just laying there the next morning and he was running his hand through my hair and kissing my head and playing with my hands and all the sweet stuff you do when you are in a relationship - does anyone agree thats just too sweet for casual - -aagghhhh - and in the end i couldnt bring myself to do the deed i think if i did the whole situation was just WAY to intimate for casual. The good thing for me is i stick to my word and i know what we agreed on so whatever happens I am happy with that and can deal with it. I just wish i knew what was going through that mind of his. Link to comment
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