We can't help whether we are introverts or extraverts - but just because someone is an introvert does not make them shy. I am an introvert - borderline to extravert. But I am a confident and outgoing person.
To be honest with you as well. if I was at a club and i seen a guy reading a book, it would be a little weird. I like going to clubs and having a dance and what attracts me to a guy when I am at a club is confidence and a guy who is not afraid to get up and have a dance. Although I tend to enjoy bars or less clubby clubs - the itneration with people is better.. My housemate on the other hand loves clubs - because she sees them as a market palce for single guys looking for one night stands and if most girls that go to the clubs are like here then the girl might only be looking for a one night stand... times have changed and yes girls do go out there play guys just as much as guys play girls. If you want to find a nice girl i dont believe a lcub is the place wether you are reading ina corner or dancing on the dancefloor.... I was sitting at the train station the other day and this guy started talking to me and to me i don't find that weird - if it wasnt for the fact i am in a confusing time at the moment I amy have let him have my number - unlike the guys an hr later when i was walking down the street said out of the blue "do you drink bourbob" and i was like ahh yeah and the hes gone can i buy you a drink and ive gone NO.. so yah dont try that move lol
