AnonymousMG Posted March 5, 2007 Share Posted March 5, 2007 So I was dating a girl for almost 4 years and she broke up with me for various reasons. This was back in early november. I went through a very difficult time with the breakup, and ended up going NC after new-years. 1 month ago, a good friend of mine had her boyfriend of a year and a half break up with her. I was there for her through the whole thing, but after about a week, we ended up dating. I know it seems really soon for her, but she's been very happy and it isn't a rebound for her as far as anybody can see. My ex contacted me last week (breaking NC) because her boyfriend told her that he still had feelings for a girl from back home (we're all in college). He told her that he still wants to be with her but he likes this other girl too. I don't know the full details on the situation, but I was surprised in the break of NC. She told me that she needed somebody to talk to, etc. etc. I have only spoken to her a couple times, and nothing was strange about them or anything like that. What my problem now is, is that I keep thinking about her. I would never cheat on my current girlfriend, and I am very happy being with her. I don't even think that my ex has had any thoughts about getting back together with me, and I don't think I would get back together with her right now either. Is this normal? I feel like such a jerk, but things just keep reminding me of my ex now. (moreso things w/ my current relationship rather than different items, etc. ) for example going on dates to places that I used to go with my ex, etc. I just don't know what to do, if I should do anything, I guess I just was hoping somebody could tell me if this is normal and if I should be doing anything about this. Sorry if this is vague, I just have a lot going through my head right now... -AMG Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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