A Dilemma....

[Lord Broly 8]

So theres this girl right that i was trying to hook up with a few

weeks ago and well I got her to call me. We had a great convo

after I was tryin to cheer her up cause she broke up with her boy

friend right. So about a week and a half passed and I finally managed

to work up the strength to call her today after some encouragement

from some of my friends. Tonight she was sort of * * * * *y cause

she was saying that guys are all * * * * * * * * and stuff right because

her ex said i love you to her just because she said it. But anyway

I told her I was going to ask her to do something this past Saturday

but I got scared to call her during the week. So anyway I asked

her if she wanted to do something on Valentines day cause i'm off work

on Valentines so it seemed like a Great Idea. So anyway she's still

complaining cause guys just use girl right. I'm like not me. I'm very

sensitive and caring and am all about the love. She's like so

your about the sex part. I'm like no. Then she catches me off guard

by asking me if i've slept with a girl and I say no. Then I ask if she's

slept with a guy and she said yes. Then she was like I got to go call

my ex and tell him I don't want to see you and stuff right and that

she'll call me back. 25 Minutes go by and I didn't get a call back.

During those 25 minutes though I got cold, sad and chills down my

spine cause she has had sex.

 

So my Question is although I do like her and would want to date her,

I was hoping to lose my Virginity to another Virgin cause I think it

wouldn't mean anything if I give her mine and not get anything back.

I just think that my Virginity is priceless and would only want something

of Equal value in Return like another person's Virginity. I got this thing

about Being a Virgin means your pure and stuff right.

 

So what i'm asking is although I do like her and she sounds nice,

should I take a chance and possibly date her instead of waiting

for a Virgin to come along who I could date and give myself to?

[Kalika]

Honestly, it sounds like she has a lot of drama and negativity. If you're truly looking for what you say you're looking for, going for her doesn't really seem like the way to go.

[valenski]

I think you are way ahead of things here, you're talking about losing your virginity and haven't even began dating the girl? Then she is just out of a relationship that sounds like it ended badly, its a good chance she wont want get involved so soon. And if you are going to take her out on Valentines day, this is just an idea, dont do romantic, go to the beach or a carnival in the day or something to keep her ming off romance and her bad relationship. But at the end of your Valentines day outing before say goodbye give something nice.

Good luck.

[Lord Broly 8]

I know what your saying. It's just i've been wanting

to get into one with a Virgin but she isn't. And that's

the problem. From what we've heard from each other

we both and a great understanding and respect for

each other as well.

 

Kalika, it's just i'm not sure if should give up the Virgin

thing for her because I might not ever find one.