sweetheart607 Posted February 9, 2007 Share Posted February 9, 2007 Sometimes i think i think to much so maybe if i tell u and u tell me what u think. I have been with my guy for 6 months and we are very much in love. It's long distance and that works fine for me on the whole i am very independent and enjoy my friends and having my own space. We have promised to be totally faithful so i don't worry to much about that. We have been having a long distance thing and it works well but i must admit that sometimes i don't like the having to plan all the time but the 4hrs distance has been ok we have weekends and hols together. My problem with it is, well firstly he is a soldier and he is going to Afgan in may for six months. we'll have all of april together and the he should have a week in the middle so it'll be like 3 then 3 so i feel fine about that he's more worried cos i am in england and might have opportunities which i will not take but i do like to go out. i start studying nursing in sept altho the decision of where i could go is still open my favourite would mean we would be on opposite coasts of britain him west and me east so six hours (apart instead of 4 and his parents live near me at the mo so its an added reason for him travelling) and the course is 3 years long. sometimes i wonder if it is possible to survive this. i could go to uni closer but i don't like it as much but it would be better for my relationship. He says he wants me to be happy and we would see each other at least once a month when he's not on tour but i worry it might become a chore and we'll fizzle out do i want it to work long term but it is getting serious quickly and we have to spend a lot of time thinking in the future and i'd much live in the present with him without worrying about the future and with lots of sex. Actually after this essay i don't really have a point just want some thoughts and if any1 is going through it or got through it and survived. I just want us to find happiness, well i suppose every1 does. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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