What is the first thing that girls look for in a guy?

[shy2cool]

I would really love to know!!! I get so scared of flirting with good looking girls, because I feel that I'm not 'good' enough physically. I love a girl who intellectually stimulates me.

[2900]

i like funny guys. the hottest guy can try to talk to me, if he cant make me laugh, i won't be interested.

[anggrace]

Well, the first thing I "notice" is his smile or the way he looks at me. The first thing that "gets me" is chemistry, but thats beyond your controll, you either have it or you dont. The first thing I "look" for is how his mind works- whats he sayen? What is he interested in? If he does it for me in these areas, Im pretty open as far as looks go. But there are some turn offs too.

[charley]

It depends on the woman. They're all individuals you know. They each have their likes and dislikes for male personality and looks. Some women think I'm adorable. Others think I'm OK. Some don't notice me. Some loath me. I need an icon of sticking my tongue out here. Is there one?

 

Clearly it depends on the woman. You can't please 'em all, but you don't need to. All you need is to please one you have something mutual with.

[charley]

Love your username by the way. It indicates a shy guy with an awesome attitude of self improvement.

 

I wish I'd thought of your username first. Wanna trade? I'll be Shy2Cool and you can be Charley.

 

Your username is your motto. Cool.

 

Here is your logo

[ChocoBB]

I'll be honest the first thing I look at is if there is looks and smile, but to be honest with you it always depend in what context you meet the person.

[CarnelianButterfly]

I notice a guys eyes and his attitude. C0ckiness puts me off right away, but more demure and introverted men are a real turn on.

[Magic_star829]

The first thing I notice is the eyes....to me they can be very telling. Also there's just SOMETHING about blue eyes.....yummy!

[Aurian]

Intelligence, humour and geekiness (hey, I am one too are a waaaaaay bigger turn on for me than the size of his muscles.

[CaptainPlanet]

Cars and money.

[Hubbys_glitter_is_gold]

i like eyes and check to see if they have a nice * * * also. but upon communicating with them i go for personality. i like the sweet, romantic geeky type, silly even.

[shy2cool]

Say, what if an average looking guy started looking your way, would you signal for him to come and talk to you? :S

[Hubbys_glitter_is_gold]

if hes good looking enough of coarse. i mean if hes sexy and he seems shy but interested i would definitely approach him.

[anggrace]

Cars and money.

 

uhm...no, not that.

[shy2cool]

if hes good looking enough of coarse. i mean if hes sexy and he seems shy but interested i would definitely approach him.

 

Do women really do that?!

[Hubbys_glitter_is_gold]

Do women really do that?!

of coarse women do that. Ones that are willing to take a chance anyway.

[CaptainPlanet]

What exactly can you tell from looking at someones eyes ?

[Kevin T]

Eyes are the window to the soul... or lackthereof.

[Kyoshiro Ogari]

What if he is not good looking. What are his chances. Honestly.

[Meggiemeg]

I am not particularly attracted to 'good-looking' men, I am attracted to a quirkiness about them...my mother tells me that I have Dorkdar....any dork (even an attractive one) within a 10 mile radius I will fall for....hahaha

[CaptainPlanet]

Eyes are the window to the soul... or lackthereof.

 

How, exactly. What is a person soul. And why is it in a window.

[Kevin T]

Soul = personality.

 

It is a window because you can tell a lot about a personality (sometimes more than you wish) by looking at their eyes. Women are especially astute at this.

[Shaker]

What I notice right away?

 

First, I notice how he carries himself. Eye contact, smile, posture, body language. Then, I notice how he interacts with me. Does he ask questions, does he interrupt me, etc. And eventually I pay attention to how he interacts with other people (the waiter, for instance, if we're out on a date).

[CaptainPlanet]

Soul = personality.

 

It is a window because you can tell a lot about a personality (sometimes more than you wish) by looking at their eyes. Women are especially astute at this.

 

But HOW do you tell. From my understanding the look in someones eyes has more to do with diet than it does anything regarding the soul.

[charley]

I have to note that as interesting as the things women say they notice, are the things they don't mention.