TijuanaJones Posted January 14, 2007 Share Posted January 14, 2007 Hey guys, better to have a mouse in the house, then a spouse in the house LOL yeah, maybe what I heard was the wife running after the husband with a broom LOL Link to comment
Parsley Posted January 14, 2007 Share Posted January 14, 2007 I'm gonna try and sleep guys. I'm back to the old ipod routine - I had a couple of nights trying without it and ended up thinking for hours about the ex. Not necessarily sad-making thoughts - just thoughts that didn't let me switch off - not good whilst ill Good luck with the rest of your day people, and will probably talk to you on the morrow Night x Link to comment
sandyv Posted January 14, 2007 Share Posted January 14, 2007 Yep probably too funny.... hope no one heard... been laughing so hard.... almost crying Link to comment
sandyv Posted January 14, 2007 Share Posted January 14, 2007 Nitey, nite, Parsley, take care of yourself.. Link to comment
Shaker Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 End of Day Three: Feeling: strong for a change this week. Also like I need to go for a really hard run, but the weather is terrible. About my ex: still love him. Still haven't heard from him. About NC: still don't know if it's the best way given what I want, or if I'll keep it up for another 27 days. But today I feel more content than I have for a while. Not knowing anything about my ex is relaxing. Questions (which I know I shouldn't care about): my ex is seeing someone new. He doesn't know I know about her, and he's lied to me about it. He said he won't be ready to date for a long while. I won't tell him that I know, but who is he protecting? Himself? The new woman? Me? Is he lying to her as well? Probably. I wonder if she knows he still has feelings for me, or that we've gone out recently? Link to comment
TijuanaJones Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 Questions (which I know I shouldn't care about): my ex is seeing someone new. He doesn't know I know about her, and he's lied to me about it. He said he won't be ready to date for a long while. I won't tell him that I know, but who is he protecting? Himself? The new woman? Me? Is he lying to her as well? Probably. I wonder if she knows he still has feelings for me, or that we've gone out recently? In my opinion, you have to consider the possibility that he is only going out with this girl to have an ego boost. I broke up 18 days ago and Im considering going out in a blind date with a friend's friend. I will do it just for fun and not expecting anything to come out of it. I dont plan on lying to the girl or anyone, but I wont talk to her about my ex either. Sometimes you just have to know (after a breakup) that you are capable of meeting new people and have fun again... I dont believe in rebound relationships so I wont set myself up for one. Link to comment
sandyv Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 Hey Shaker, from my experience a guy that does this is usually just trying to keep you in his sights..... just in case... don't fall for it ok? hugz Link to comment
Shaker Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 Got it, TJ and Sandy. I'm also going on a date this week, TJ. He's attractive and pretty well a stranger. He doesn't know I'm going through a break-up, and I'm going to keep it that way. This girl just wants to have fun (for an evening, anyway). Still, I hope he doesn't go in for a kiss! Not ready for that yet. Link to comment
sandyv Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 Nothing wrong with dat, you GO GIRL Link to comment
AllTornUp Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 She's packing now. I thought it would make me upset, but so far I don't really feel anything. I will try to hold onto that. Link to comment
sandyv Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 Yeah Alltornup: You will be ok, just hold onto that for now ok.... take care of you, and post here, I will always be around... well most of the time except when I'm at work I won't forget about you, bc I've been there too.... and kinda still am.... Link to comment
andreap Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 Hi Everyone. Well today is day 26 of NC for me......day 10 of the challenge! It has been a rough weekend. I keep wondering what he is doing....and why I haven't heard from him yet.....the longest we've ever gone NC since the breakup is about 30 days or so....and HE always has been the one to break NC. Now I am starting to wonder if he has finally given up on this? I mean, I don't want to talk to him if it just more of the same b.s. (can't commit, him playin' games w/ me/ keeping me in limbo)....and he HAS tried to break the NC 3 times this time....but I refuse to hear anything other than a solid "let's put this back together"....so I am trying to stay strong! I am just feeling a little insecure b/c I am wondering if he has decided it would just be easier to not continue our conversations (even though they weren't really getting anywhere) and just start over w/ someone else. I am AFRAID that he'll fall in love w/ someone else. I know that he has been casually dating....but he has always told me in the past months that he is "100% single" and "not in love w/ anyone....that he now knows there is a big difference".....whatever the hell that is supposed to mean? Well, just venting. I hope everyone on here is trying to have a good weekend and hangin' in there. Link to comment
andreap Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 Those of you that are online right now (and if you are reading this I guess you are go to the main page for Yahoo! It's all about breakups and there is actually a "No Contact Contract" on there....very interesting!! Link to comment
luvmykids Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 hi all, just got back home..wanted to check in and see how everyone is doing? Link to comment
luvmykids Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 Got it, TJ and Sandy. I'm also going on a date this week, TJ. He's attractive and pretty well a stranger. He doesn't know I'm going through a break-up, and I'm going to keep it that way. This girl just wants to have fun (for an evening, anyway). Still, I hope he doesn't go in for a kiss! Not ready for that yet. Hey,, good for you shaker I went on a couple dates also...it made me feel better! Link to comment
sandyv Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 Meantime... holy moly girl the nerve of this guy, holy jeez, thats crazy.... and thank god that you realize that too. Don't let him, *and I know you won't* bring you down..... lots of NC needed here, what a stupid man..... wow..... Link to comment
luvmykids Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 Dont drop out...hang in there. I also broke NC yesterday Im not dropping out unless SD kicks me out. dont know if things are going to work out with the ex or not so im going to keep everyone updated and try and be here for others. Link to comment
luvmykids Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 well dont know if i actually broke it or just gave in to the many times he tried to comunicate with me Link to comment
luvmykids Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 hey sandy, how are you? Link to comment
sandyv Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 I'm ok, missing the ex, soo like, what else is new eh? Link to comment
sandyv Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 I was out for lunch today, apparently he stopped in, actually glad I missed him..... too much.... too soon Link to comment
meantime Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 Thanks Sandy the thing is love is blind and when he talks to me my head spins it happens all the time. I can't believe I called, I knew it was wrong and I did it anyway. It sounds good to read you saying how crazy it is because when you are in it ... it doesn't seem all that crazy. Link to comment
sandyv Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 No, Luv doesn't seem crazy, but it is..... CRAZY... I love him....I hate him, I don't know how to feel anymore... and I've got that waiting for another shoe to drop kinda feeling as well... do you know what I mean? Link to comment
luvmykids Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 I was out for lunch today, apparently he stopped in, actually glad I missed him..... too much.... too soon he stopped in where? your house? Link to comment
sandyv Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 Yeah, my son was here, he was passing by...... Link to comment
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