Foot Fetish?

[Cat Lover]

The guy that I'm sort of seeing right now has a foot fetish big time and I don't. He always wants to look at my feet, smell them and lick them. Feet really don't gross me out or anything they just don't do anything for me sexually and they do for him. At his house all of his porn movies are about feet and he has women's shoes. He also wanted to know if he could keep one of my used socks to smell when I'm not around. This is the first time I have ever dealt with any kind of a fetish like this.

[Beec]

I think the real question is what affect does his admiration for your feet have on you, not if you share his fetish. So what happens for you when he does lick your feet? If you can tolerate and enjoy his fetish, why not do so? If not, find someone else.

[Scotcha]

Okay, so people have their quirks and that's cool.. But if you are only sort of seeing him I don't quite understand why he is sharing this with you yet... That's the only thing that would make me a bit nervous about it actually.

 

I don't see any harm in giving him a sock.. I dunno, I always like to hang onto a t-shirt of my boyfriend's.

 

If feet just don't turn you on (it doesn't work for me either) would a nice long foot massage and going barefoot around the house be an acceptable compromise for him?

[Cat Lover]

It doesn't really do anything for me sexually. It's nice to have a foot massage and all but I don't really get any enjoyment out of it.

[BellaDonna]

Well it could be worse I suppose.

 

I don't know, if it were you I would take my feet and run in the other direction. I think the "sock comment" would put me over the edge.

 

But if you are ok with it then don't let it stop you from progressing in the relationship.

 

How long have you been dating him?

 

apparently this type of fetish is not all that uncommon. There are even foot-worshipping parties that people go to. I bet he's been to one.

 

What you might want to do is just ask him to explain it more to you. If he is happy with just your feet then maybe it can work- if his fetish has him chasing other women's feet/shoes or leads to a porn addiction etc., then that would spell trouble.

 

BellaDonna

[n83]

If he needs your feet to become sexually stimulated by you, well, that might be a problem...

[Day_Walker]

All you need to figure out is if this is something that you are okay with and if not then it is best to get out now.

[Cat Lover]

As far as I know it's just my feet he is into and watching a little foot porn every now and then. We are not even really dating or anything serious just a casual fling that's what sort of scares me how much he is into my feet already and we really don't even know each other.

[Iceman26]

I'd put your foot down on this one.......or maybe not?

 

I think that if his foot fetish bothers you than I would simply stop seeing him.

[Cat Lover]

I don't think he is anything serious and if he was no I don't think I could handle this foot fetish thing for very long since it doesn’t do anything for me sexually or turn me on in anyway I think it would get boring after a while?

[BellaDonna]

I think it would get boring after a while?

 

Not to the person with the fetish. In fact in many cases they NEED it to even perform sexually.

[BoddenProBowler06]

That's kind of creepy that he's coming out to you so much about this and it was only a "fling". I guess if you like the guy then keep him around but it sounds like he's obsessed with your feet...

[joiseygrl]

If he's not hurting you or offending you, I don't see a real issue with it. Does he INSIST on doing this every time you fool around? That would be my only concern.

 

I have an odd fetish myself; I have a thing for armpits. Most guys I've broached this with were kinda weirded out by it. But after they indulged me, most found it very pleasurable.

 

Keep an open mind and maybe you'll discover something about it you like.

[Cat Lover]

I know it is kind of weird?

[BornToResist]

I dated a guy with a foot fetish before. It does absolutely nothing for me either so I guess I can see where you're coming from.

 

But then again, I just kinda let him have at it, as long as all my needs were being met. He'd rub my feet and give me massages and all kinds of other crap, and I just relaxed and enjoyed it. I figured if it's doing something for him, then have at it, it's not like it felt bad at all...I couldn't complain, free foot massages ALL the time.

 

But if it bothers you, maybe you should consider finding someone else who doesn't freak you out.

[BrokenHeart82]

Its a fetish..its his "thing"...there is not a one of us on this forum who is fit to determine if it is weird or not.

 

It sounds like you enjoy it to a point...you enjoy the foot rubs and to a point youre probably flattered that hes embracing allll of you..footsies included.

It seems that you get uncomfortable when it gets to some of the other areas..him wanting to play scratch and sniff with your gym socks for instance.

 

So i think maybe you just need to draw the line at your comfort zone...even throw the guy a bone and wrap up some socks for his pleasure...but dont force yourself to be uncomfortable.

[Cat Lover]

Thanks for all the good advice!

[timjd]

this is quite embarrassing but here goes ,

 

I am a man and have had a foot fetish since before i was sexually engaged even (I remember sniffing my sisters feet under the table when i was about five). As i became sexually aware i found womens feet particularly arousing, as well as legs, breasts, shoulders and so on.

 

Now, if i am in a park or in the garden or street and i see a girl playing with her bare feet i am hugely turned on. the way they move is incredibly sexy, the muscles and tendons, the shapely bone structure. i think the heel and ankle is the most erotic personally, and seeing a woman in a sexy pair of heels is fantastic.

 

Don't get me wrong, there is more to women than feet- i love my gf's body. Her face, her beautiful brown eyes and even her freckles! (underrated imo).

But i have to say if we are in bed my favourite position is screwing her from behind, looking at our reflection in the mirror, and seeing her bare feet as i come. I can't explain why i like it, i just do.

 

as for the sock incident, well, i have stolen worn stockings and socks from cute girls in the past and i did find it erotic. particularly if they had a worn smell. i know this is yucky but don't you know by now that men are disgusting!

 

if my family find out i will die of shame.

[Cat Lover]

I guess it is what ever works for you. Everybody likes different things when it comes to sex. I particularly like rough sex and my man to talk dirty to me. I also like it when he pulls my hair and spanks me during sex and some might call this strange? I will try and accommodate his fetish within reason so that we both feel sexually satisfied.

[BellaDonna]

Maybe he can talk dirty to your feet.

[Cat Lover]

That's an idea?

[Cat Lover]

I think so too!

[TheRedQueen]

I third that!!!

[TheRedQueen]

Or would that be fourth?