oh yeah Posted July 10, 2006 Share Posted July 10, 2006 tips... the help is greatly appriciated. Link to comment
FCTex Posted July 10, 2006 Share Posted July 10, 2006 Like you said.. Tips... Just the tip... My girlfriend can't get the whole thing in her mouth. She got halfway down and almost threw up on me. Just get what you can comfortably, depending on your mouth and the obvious size of what your trying to eat. The rest just needs to be taken care of by hand. Link to comment
orgasmictofu Posted July 10, 2006 Share Posted July 10, 2006 You don't have to get the whole thing in your mouth. You can do as much as you can comfortably and stroke the shaft with your hands. That whole deep throat crap is just in porn. Quite frankly, I don't need a penis deep in my esophagus, thanks. Link to comment
Rain__man Posted July 10, 2006 Share Posted July 10, 2006 Not to say you should neglect the rest of the shaft, or the boys (if you're comfortable and he keeps it all trimmed), but no- you really aren't expected to gag it down like the porn sluts. If you're really into it though, try googling "suppress gag reflex" or something similar. Link to comment
FCTex Posted July 10, 2006 Share Posted July 10, 2006 I had an ex girlfriend who had no gag reflex. I proved that wrong... My girlfriend now will try to, but to be honest, I don't see what the big deal is. They can't keep it back long enough to make it feel great and beside the novelty factor of saying you can, I don't see the reason to.. I get more out of it when they choke down less. Just do what your comfortable with, otherwise it wont be enjoyable to both parties. Link to comment
yeawutever Posted July 10, 2006 Share Posted July 10, 2006 You don't have to get the whole thing in your mouth, just try as much as you can, depending on the size of your mouth and what it's capacity is. If it doesn't go the way he wanted it, then he'll tell you. I'm assuming you're a newbie at this. Link to comment
coollady1957 Posted July 10, 2006 Share Posted July 10, 2006 I agree to what everyone else said. You DON"T have to get the whole entire penis in your mouth. Link to comment
yeawutever Posted July 10, 2006 Share Posted July 10, 2006 My girlfriend can't get the whole thing in her mouth. She got halfway down and almost threw up on me LOL, what a terrible experience, I can imagine it must have been a terrible taste she put on my mouth and that she never wants to try oral sex again. Link to comment
yeawutever Posted July 10, 2006 Share Posted July 10, 2006 For her it must have been just as bad as sushi. Link to comment
annie24 Posted July 10, 2006 Share Posted July 10, 2006 I just tell guys that I have a gag reflex - and I bite! no one asks me to deep throat! seriously, only the porn girls do that. the average human mouth can hold 3 inches, while the average man is about 5-6 inches. Lou Paget has some very good books with sex tips. you can get your hands involved with the blow jobs, so that his entire penis is stimulated, and you aren't gagging. you should check out some of her books. Link to comment
FCTex Posted July 10, 2006 Share Posted July 10, 2006 No, infact my girlfriend gives me some of the best head I've ever gotten from any girl, ever.. It's fantastic, and I have no complaints that she can't handle it all. Makes me feel rather good that I have more than enough that she can't put it all in her mouth and still whistle a tune. Link to comment
shy_guy_3 Posted July 10, 2006 Share Posted July 10, 2006 I just tell guys that I have a gag reflex - and I bite! Haha Sounds Painful ,lol while the average man is about 5-6 inches.. Are You Serious? Link to comment
eriko Posted July 10, 2006 Share Posted July 10, 2006 Jesus, I guess I'm the only one who thinks that a girl who can deepthroat is just a superior female. Haha I'm just kidding. But, I'm not going to lie, I have been deepthroated and it is glorious. I don't know how the hell this girl did it, but her lips were touching my lower stomach. My current girlfriend can only go about an inch or two but uses her hands, so it's still good. But deepthroating rocks! Link to comment
annie24 Posted July 11, 2006 Share Posted July 11, 2006 Originally Posted by annie24 while the average man is about 5-6 inches.. Are You Serious? __________________ yes. actually, it's probably more between 5.5 inches and 6.5 inches. this is according to research done by the Kinsey Institute on Sex and I also came accross this website, from the makers of lifestyles condoms... link removed ANSELL RESEARCH The Penis Size Survey Ansell, makers of LifeStyles Condoms, has conducted research into average penis size. The survey found that the average length of the erect penis is 5.877 inches (14.928cm), with the majority ranging between the small 5.5 inch penis size (14cm) and the large 6.3 inch penises (16cm). The average girth is 4.972 inches (12.63cm), with the majority ranging between 4.7 inches (12cm) and 5.1 inches (13cm). This indicates that the difference between small penis size and large is not very big. Link to comment
TiredMan Posted July 11, 2006 Share Posted July 11, 2006 That whole deep throat crap is just in porn. Quite frankly, I don't need a penis deep in my esophagus, thanks. That's not true. It's a nice change of pace to have someone go as deep as they can. It feels nice and warm. It's clearly not only in porn. I have had a few who put me in as deep as their throar would allow. Link to comment
orgasmictofu Posted July 11, 2006 Share Posted July 11, 2006 That's not true. It's a nice change of pace to have someone go as deep as they can. It feels nice and warm. It's clearly not only in porn. I have had a few who put me in as deep as their throar would allow. Going as deep as you can is different than outright deepthroating. I treat my guy every so oftten by going as far as I can, but it's certainly not past my epiglottis. Link to comment
nottoogreen Posted July 11, 2006 Share Posted July 11, 2006 Right, never been down a throat, the head is what matters and suffocating her is not the purpose of the game. My weirdest thought was to try some old street girl whom had no teeth. Anyway, perhaps in 20 years, my gf will get 3rd teeth, perhaps removable. Link to comment
randiandriien Posted July 11, 2006 Share Posted July 11, 2006 I was so afraid of this when I first got w/ my fiance! I don't think I have lockjaw, but it does pop if I open my mouth wide enough! I have a very small mouth and God has truly blessed him...if you know what I mean! Is it safe to say...men...that ya'll actually enjoy a lot of tongue action to maybe take the lack of "throat space"? Of course he tells me it's great...is he just being nice?? lol Link to comment
TiredMan Posted July 11, 2006 Share Posted July 11, 2006 Going as deep as you can is different than outright deepthroating. I treat my guy every so oftten by going as far as I can, but it's certainly not past my epiglottis. Well they were deep throating. And as far as I know, there wasn't a camera so no porn. It depends on the girl and if she is creative or not. Link to comment
TiredMan Posted July 11, 2006 Share Posted July 11, 2006 Well, what I always say is you can't honestly trust what a guy is saying about your BJ's while you are with them. It's what they tell their closest friends which is closest to the truth. In many cases, a guy will almost always tell their woman that the BJ is good or great because" A) A bad or decent Bj is better than NONE, which what you might get and they want to avoid that. B) Women naturally get defensive which might lead to point A. C) They don't want to hurt the person they are with and no matter how you phrase it, some women will get hurt if told they aren't doin it right. Even if you tell them what you like, some people beomce very self conscious about it. D) Even if they ejaculate, doesn't mean it was good. A guy can ejaculate from intercourse with a hole in the wall if they had to lol. Link to comment
randiandriien Posted July 11, 2006 Share Posted July 11, 2006 I saw this book on Amazon called Blow Him Away. The reviews for it were extremely high, from a lot of people. I ran accross it accidently in Bookasmillion one night. Anyway, I bought it and read it. It seems, that MOST people who actually do it will end up not really doing it "right" anyway. That make sense? lol I told him to be completely honest with me, ya know telling me what's better than what. No one wants to suck at giving head! haha, a hole in the wall! That is hilarious! Link to comment
Rain__man Posted July 12, 2006 Share Posted July 12, 2006 Hmm..."right". I think there's two kinds of head, personally. "Make me cum" head, and "show me how much you love mini-me" head. Same goes for head for either sex, you definitely should be able to get your partner off when you're doing it, but sometimes it's almost more enjoyable to watch your partner enjoy...well you for a long time, than to have either of you worrying about that rush to climax. I used to have a bit of a problem staying aroused when recieving, because I was focused on the fact that it wasn't being done "right" long enough for me to reach the happy ending. I learned to relax and just enjoy the "getting" part, and I found that it actually turns me on more. Just my thoughts. B Link to comment
MayjorWoody Posted August 20, 2006 Share Posted August 20, 2006 Hey, check out the fine work of Heather Brooke. most of the lads here will know what I'm saying. If you learn to do what she does then you are truly a superior woman and you will please any man. Also you don't have to taste the cum, straight down the throat and no problems. But in the long run, a blow job is a blow job. I'd give my right leg to get one at the moment, however it goes. Link to comment
dude69 Posted August 21, 2006 Share Posted August 21, 2006 When my ex use to try and deepthroat me i usualy told her not to try it because it hurt my "unit" more then anything. Link to comment
nottoogreen Posted August 21, 2006 Share Posted August 21, 2006 When my ex use to try and deepthroat me i usualy told her not to try it because it hurt my "unit" more then anything. That's an argument indeed. Link to comment
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