Emotional Posted June 13, 2006 Share Posted June 13, 2006 This forum is for people with opinions about having a boyfriend or girlfriend... The pros and cons that come along with being in a relationship.... Link to comment
DN Posted June 13, 2006 Share Posted June 13, 2006 Pro: So much time is spent with you partner. Con: So much time is spent with your partner. Link to comment
chai714 Posted June 13, 2006 Share Posted June 13, 2006 Pro: Making joyful memories. Con: Breaking up. Link to comment
Angel_a_monkey Posted June 13, 2006 Share Posted June 13, 2006 Pro: You aren't as lonely. You have someone to count on for everything and someone to bestow all your love and affection on and receive love. Con: You are rarely alone! Sometimes relationships seem to loose their fun and zest. I miss the excitement of dating. Link to comment
shes2smart Posted June 13, 2006 Share Posted June 13, 2006 Pro: There's always someone else around..... Con: ....who is very likely to eat the last oreo. Link to comment
Emotional Posted June 13, 2006 Author Share Posted June 13, 2006 Pro: someone that loves you unconditionally Con Link to comment
JJRadical Posted June 13, 2006 Share Posted June 13, 2006 Pro: Sex Con: Everything else Link to comment
Aschleigh Posted June 13, 2006 Share Posted June 13, 2006 Pros: great sex, someone to tell silly things to , growth that comes from having a sounding board, fun, inspiration, sense of power ( that I can attract a great guy) Cons: irritation, feeling powerless ( becuase I'm so in love but can't seem to make everything great all the time) anger, jealousy, pain Maybe being a couple should be appricated when it's happening and then being single can be appricated when it's happening. Link to comment
Skippy Posted June 13, 2006 Share Posted June 13, 2006 with every good things come with the bad things. With every privilege comes responsibility. I dont see arguments, being crowded as a bad thing,it just comes with the relationship. Link to comment
Momene Posted June 13, 2006 Share Posted June 13, 2006 Having a girlfriend for me would be a no-no at the moment, as I'm married. One pro you've missed is having kids. My daughter is great. I don't miss having sex with other girls but hate having less control over money and time. Link to comment
RayKay Posted June 13, 2006 Share Posted June 13, 2006 Pro: There's always someone else around..... Con: ....who is very likely to eat the last oreo. LOL, I love this one! Pro You have someone to share the highs and lows of life with, to love, laugh and cry with, to pursue both individual and joint dreams and goals with. Con You have twice the laundry to do. When it's the right partner at least, this is my take. In the wrong relationship, with the wrong person, there are a lot more cons, and not nearly enough pros (which indicates it's time to consider whether it really is right for you anyway). Link to comment
eleanorrigby1 Posted June 13, 2006 Share Posted June 13, 2006 I lose my sanity when Im in a relationship! I become a lot more insecure than I ever was when I was single and although I do a pretty good job at hiding it, I analyse and over analyse our conversations and confuse myself. However, I wouldnt be without him for the world! : ) Link to comment
Emotional Posted June 17, 2006 Author Share Posted June 17, 2006 im the exact opposit...I am more secure when being in a relationship than being single.... I think thats the reason why I like to be in a relationship is because the person makes you feel good about yourself...and its okay to let go! Link to comment
AntiLove_SuperStar Posted June 17, 2006 Share Posted June 17, 2006 PROS: Sex. One person at least finds me very hot. In jokes. Annoying people in public places. Not feeling as though you are missing out on anything. Someone to call at any point. That warm "Im So Faithful!" glow when you turn down other people who hit on you. CONS: It ends. Link to comment
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