Imperceptible Posted May 23, 2006 Share Posted May 23, 2006 If you were kissing a bad kisser would you prolong the kiss and hope it gets better? End it as soon as possible? Act like it wasn't bad at all? Or didn't notice how bad the kiss was until after the kiss was over? I've read posts about people being unhappy with bad kissers and I was wondering what would you do? Link to comment
itsallgrand Posted May 23, 2006 Share Posted May 23, 2006 Keep practising. That's what I've done or would do. I don't mention it. I might pull away if it was really bad and take a break, try something else. I don't think I've ever encountered a bad kisser (truly bad) other than one time. It was a fling so it wasn't really a problem. I stopped seeing him for other reasons, so - problem solved. Link to comment
koolaidnovel Posted May 23, 2006 Share Posted May 23, 2006 I think this is a really good question... I would probably unfortunately keep kissing and hope it gets better, because I did that in the past. lol. Link to comment
yeawutever Posted May 23, 2006 Share Posted May 23, 2006 Nevr encountered a real bad kisser before, but if I were to I would just hope for the best and well not really say anything. But if it's that horrible to the point I'm uncomfortable, then I would back up a little and try cuddling. Link to comment
DropToZero Posted May 23, 2006 Share Posted May 23, 2006 I know what you mean... Um...as a guy, I've been told by a few girls(without even asking), that I am a really good kisser(despite the fact that I'm not THAT experienced...it's just not something I tell everyone). I had one girl though who I was/am(big mess) dating, and at first she was horrible at kissing. I mean, to a point where I hated just even intiating a kiss cause it felt like a ...fight almost. As I'd heard too, you never want to tell a girl she's a bad kisser or something, because for some reason girls take it very personally and hard. The problem she had was that she was too forceful, it didn't seem like a natural kiss, almost like she was fighting or something for control. What I did, was just keep kissing the way I always had, never tried to change or fight her back, and slowly she actually seemed to catch on and she got much better. I wouldn't say she's the best, but after a little time and work, she's much more natural at it, and I'd feel much better telling her she was a good kisser now, than back then. Link to comment
Imperceptible Posted May 23, 2006 Author Share Posted May 23, 2006 I wouldn't say anything either. So if everyone doesn't say anything and hope the other person improves with time, then how does the other person know he/she should improve? Some people say kiss the same way your partner kisses. But how does one know who's leading? If the bad kisser thinks he or she is great then they're not going to do what their partner is doing. I assume the unknowing bad kisser will try to take the lead. Link to comment
GottaLetItBurn Posted May 23, 2006 Share Posted May 23, 2006 I agree with DropToZero it has to be natural. I think the problem with so called 'bad kissers" is that thay try too hard. Sometimes I think that since I didn't say anything about it once time when this girl was just all sloppy with kissing, that she thinks I was the bad kisser. I seriously just like it to be natural, that's all that is required to be a good kissed. exactly how you see in the movies, cause it just feels right and natural.. Don't say anything though. I personally love to stop and look at the girl, and if she kissed my neck I feel really good. I think it sounds odd because most guys do that to girls, but if you do that it would make the guy feel good. Link to comment
hk87 Posted May 23, 2006 Share Posted May 23, 2006 Play a game. One partner just sits there and lets the other kiss them any way they wish, then swap. Or say I really like it when you do this, or I would like you to do this to me. Don't be negative, just show them different ways to do what you want them to do! After more time together though, it will get better because you get used to what each other like. Hk87 p.s- yes, girls do take someone saying they are a bad kisser very personally, and I would not recommend going down that route! Link to comment
mitch17 Posted February 3, 2007 Share Posted February 3, 2007 how is he a bad kisser? Link to comment
Aurian Posted February 4, 2007 Share Posted February 4, 2007 Maybe make a joke of it if it ever happened to me... If he's too aggressive - "Hey, slow down! We got plenty of time " If he's too gentle - "Hey (name), I won't break." (And kiss him hard Link to comment
iwishiknew Posted February 13, 2007 Share Posted February 13, 2007 I think I would be a bad kisser due to lack of experience Link to comment
g1234567890h Posted February 16, 2007 Share Posted February 16, 2007 I don't believe there are bad kissers, only inexperienced ones. There's a very simple remedy to a bad kissing experience: give instruction and practice. For example, when I kiss i like about 70% tongue and 30% lip but my girlfriend likes about 70% lip and 30% tongue. We had to work that out and now it's about 50-50. Link to comment
belissima86 Posted February 21, 2007 Share Posted February 21, 2007 I think I would be a bad kisser due to lack of experience Just start slow and simple and pay attention to what the other is doing and you can't go wrong! Link to comment
pinkelephant Posted February 23, 2007 Share Posted February 23, 2007 Two examples. One, i would do what they do to them. They catch the drift REAL quick. Two, i pull the "let me kiss you" thing. The latter works best for me. heh. Link to comment
soclueless Posted February 13, 2008 Share Posted February 13, 2008 Would saying something such as for example: "i really like it when you kiss me slowly...i quite like just lip kissing too" work if the guy you were with had an obsession with using tongue? Link to comment
farfromfalling Posted February 22, 2008 Share Posted February 22, 2008 The problem she had was that she was too forceful, it didn't seem like a natural kiss, almost like she was fighting or something for control. What I did, was just keep kissing the way I always had, never tried to change or fight her back, and slowly she actually seemed to catch on and she got much better. I wouldn't say she's the best, but after a little time and work, she's much more natural at it, and I'd feel much better telling her she was a good kisser now, than back then. lol yeah man, this girl i'm seeing, she forces her kisses. to the point where...it hurts lol. she split my bottom lip. i'm trying to have her 'catch on' as well...i don't want to tell her she's bad. that's mean haha.. Link to comment
KissnRomance Posted March 4, 2008 Share Posted March 4, 2008 If you were kissing a bad kisser would you prolong the kiss and hope it gets better? End it as soon as possible? Act like it wasn't bad at all? Or didn't notice how bad the kiss was until after the kiss was over? I've read posts about people being unhappy with bad kissers and I was wondering what would you do? Well if you are kissing a bad kisser and you know one or two thing about kissing or you are a pro kisser, the thing you should do is to be honest to the bad kisser. Politely tell him that he doesn't know how to kiss and you are not enjoying his kissing. Teach him copycat kissing, meaning tell him to copy the way you you are kissing him. Teach him other kissing styles like: French kissing Deep kissing Eskimo kissing Vacum kissing Candy kiss fruity kiss Angel kiss Suck kiss If you don't know more about this kissing styles and types of kissing visit my homepage @link removed to learn more about these sensual kissing styles to hone your kissing skills. Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted March 10, 2008 Share Posted March 10, 2008 I kissed a guy once who was a REALLY bad kisser. I just stopped the kissing on my own and "changed the pace" of it. I kind of "took over" the kissing and changed the whole kiss to the way I wanted to be kissed, because, I am a good kisser (If I may say so myself... ) I think it's almost like dancing...one person can "take the lead" if it's necessary. GAWD with this guy was it SOOOOOOOO necessary...I don't know if I was his first kiss or what... *Allie does NOT like to remember that one* Link to comment
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