XXXXMITCHXXXX Posted August 11, 2007 Share Posted August 11, 2007 Okay, I've pretty much kissed a girl every year of my life starting around pre-school and kindergarten. I thought it was so "mighty" to kiss a lot of girls back then when I was young, and never have I really experienced a "real" and "right" kiss until lately. My girlfriend and I broke up, as I have a topic in the "Breaking Up" forum, and I met her when I was 24. Before we had even started dating this girl and I, my x now, started kissing. I first kissed her on my birthday, March 23, 2007, and that's my "real" kiss of my life and I've never kissed and it felt like that before, that's why I want my x back so badly. That was her "first" kiss, when she was 26, just like me, and it felt so wonderful to be the one to give it to her, but I just don't get what happened between us really. The first kiss.. and all my kisses with this one girl, my x, have been the most passionate, romantic, intense, and zealous kisses of my life, that's why.. yea, I won't go around on the "That's why I'm grieving because we broke up help I don't know what to do!" act again. Link to comment
desert_rose26 Posted August 14, 2007 Share Posted August 14, 2007 Let me join in on this thread. I'm 23 don't think I've been properly kissed. I was nervous and whenever he moved in closer, I pulled way. Why? Because I was emotionally not ready. I was fed up with my insecure emotion that instead of letting him move in with a kiss (which i thought I was going to die from anxiety), I gave him a quick kiss on the lips - very unromantic grandma type. UGH. I even had my eyes open when he was trying to get close. Later he said "who keeps their eyes open?" Then after awhile, I didn't say much and he asked "was that your first kiss?" and I said "yup". Then after digesting the fact a bit longer, he apologized. So...I don't think that was a kiss at all?! Link to comment
kailola Posted August 16, 2007 Share Posted August 16, 2007 Well, I'm 24 and I've never kissed. I did get my first hug ever at age 23, so that to me was already pretty special, and I imagine a kiss to feel like that as well, if you know what I mean. I have to admit though that at this point, it is starting to seem very unlikely I'll ever experience that. Link to comment
patience13 Posted August 17, 2007 Share Posted August 17, 2007 well it really depends on the guy if your going to tell them or not some guys will see it as a cute thing if you tell them and probably come out with somthing like "dont worry" and slowly move in or say "well heres our chance" or somthing cheesy like that i know i would hehe althought some guys may find it a bit weird that you havnt and shun you so it all depends on the person but you should really get to know some1 first before you kiss ect Link to comment
Steffie86 Posted November 19, 2007 Share Posted November 19, 2007 I will be 22 in January, and I have never even gotten close to having a boyfriend let alone kissing a guy. I am actually meeting a guy through a friend for the first time. Mostly because she wont let me get out of it Xx scares me, but I know how you feel. Link to comment
switegurl88 Posted January 15, 2008 Share Posted January 15, 2008 Help!! A guy just asked me to be his girlfriend and I said yes. But the thing is that I have never kissed b4 but i have been lying that i have. WHAT SHOULD I DO? Link to comment
jerseygirl23 Posted January 15, 2008 Share Posted January 15, 2008 Don't worry!! I was 21 before I had my first kiss ... I had just met the guy but it was magical because I liked him. Wait for the butterflies - it's worth it!! Link to comment
Madoc Posted January 16, 2008 Share Posted January 16, 2008 Well, I'm 24 and I've never kissed. I did get my first hug ever at age 23, so that to me was already pretty special, and I imagine a kiss to feel like that as well, if you know what I mean. I have to admit though that at this point, it is starting to seem very unlikely I'll ever experience that. All I can say is don't worry at all remember your a woman I can almost promise it will happen sometime in yourlife time and regardless don't worry. My friend recently got married and she had her first kiss at about 23/4ish but she was glad she waited so your not the only one out there. Its a great thing for a woman but it totally sucks for a guy. Link to comment
kailola Posted January 30, 2008 Share Posted January 30, 2008 All I can say is don't worry at all remember your a woman I can almost promise it will happen sometime in yourlife time and regardless don't worry. My friend recently got married and she had her first kiss at about 23/4ish but she was glad she waited so your not the only one out there. Its a great thing for a woman but it totally sucks for a guy. Ehm, I'm not a woman though. So it totally sucks for a guy. Yeah, I knew that already... Link to comment
airyihl Posted June 25, 2008 Share Posted June 25, 2008 She has no reason to worry. By virtue of being female, If she really wants a kiss she just needs to be a bit more encouraging when guys take passes at her. But clearly she doesn't want to yet or she wouldn't need to write this post, so it's a moot point. And, as many men have already pointed out, they value a girl who hasn't been with tons men. A man who is inexperienced and nervous about a first kiss is going to have a hard time getting anywhere past high school age. Women expect men to be confident and aggressive in initiating. If a guy is unable to compete with his peers it's usually going to be SOL. He just has to endure tons of rejections and hope for an eventual lucky break. I had my first kiss at age 20 and not because I didn't feel like it until then. That was when I finally got my first opportunity. I just feel I ought to give some perspective here. A girl has the luxury of sitting and waiting for someone to come and 'sweep her off her feet.' For a man, that sort of behavior is a one way ticket to 'old and lonely'. Not only is her situation not bad, she's doing quite well for herself. Link to comment
MD Geist Posted July 1, 2008 Share Posted July 1, 2008 So I am 22, and have never kissed a guy. I fear that the longer I go without kissing someone, the more akward it's going to be... Guys out there- would you think it was really weird to be dating a girl who has never kissed anyone? When the time does come (hopefully soon!!) should I tell the guy I have no clue what the heck I'm doing? Or would that ruin it? Thanks for the help!! I am 22 and have never kissed a girl before so your not alone. You'll be fine your a woman things aren't as difficult as it is for men. For us where suppose to be the confident experienced ones. Link to comment
skatealexia Posted July 2, 2008 Share Posted July 2, 2008 Haha, I'm 16, but I don't think its any thing to worry about at my age *eyeroll*, but the great teen pressures! Link to comment
MD Geist Posted July 11, 2008 Share Posted July 11, 2008 Iam 22 and never been kissed. ITS SOOOOOOOOOO EMBARRSING!. Link to comment
iwishiknew Posted July 13, 2008 Share Posted July 13, 2008 You think 22 is bad wait till your 30 like me, I still can't believe I am already 30 and have not kissed a girl yet. Link to comment
MikeGGG Posted July 22, 2008 Share Posted July 22, 2008 I didn't have my first real kiss till I was 24. From the ages of 17 to 24 I "kissed" a few girls but they were mainly one night stands so the kisses were unexpected and sloppy. I don't think we even locked lips properly so i always thought I was a bad kisser. Finally there was this one girl I was dying to get to know for a whole year and one day out of nowhere she grabbed me and started making out with me and it was very easy to close my eyes and let things happen naturally. She told me afterward that she had never been with a guy that kissed so well. So don't worry... when you find someone you like just let your instincts take over and you will do fine. Link to comment
relm Posted July 23, 2008 Share Posted July 23, 2008 You think 22 is bad wait till your 30 like me, I still can't believe I am already 30 and have not kissed a girl yet. You think 30 is bad, wait till your 37. Link to comment
sparkly Posted November 17, 2008 Share Posted November 17, 2008 go out and just kiss someone.i was like you.yes 22 aswell. i went out got the drink into me and that was that.and now i'm already up to 3rd base.don't be afraid its such a beautiful thing to do.actually i think i want to right now.haha Link to comment
barefootone Posted November 23, 2008 Share Posted November 23, 2008 I joined specifically to post in this forum - 23 and never been properly kissed. Like the previous poster I did have one drunken accident kiss, but I don't like to count that because it didn't even feel like a kiss (maybe I missed the lips, who knows...) For the first time in my life I've actually met someone I think I'd like to kiss, but I'm terrified to let him know... Link to comment
secretness87 Posted November 23, 2008 Share Posted November 23, 2008 So I am 22, and have never kissed a guy. I fear that the longer I go without kissing someone, the more akward it's going to be... Guys out there- would you think it was really weird to be dating a girl who has never kissed anyone? When the time does come (hopefully soon!!) should I tell the guy I have no clue what the heck I'm doing? Or would that ruin it? Thanks for the help!! I would just be honest with the guy and say "I've never kissed anyone before" or something like that so then at least he knows and he'd probably appreciate the fact that you were honest. I don't think you being honest with him would ruin anything at all =) I kinda know how you feel with that since I didn't get my first kiss until I was 18 and in college but my experience was just kind of weird. Me and the guy were at a dance and we got all caught up in the moment and he just started kissing me. So I kissed back.. didn't really know what the hell I was doing but I just went with the flow and did whatever he was doing haha. But yeah you'll get better at it over time =) Link to comment
iwishiknew Posted November 24, 2008 Share Posted November 24, 2008 You think 30 is bad, wait till your 37. 37 is not far away I am almost there. I hope I kiss a girl before I hit 37. So you also never kissed a girl yet? How long have you been trying? Link to comment
LightbulbSun Posted November 29, 2008 Share Posted November 29, 2008 I hope I kiss a girl before I'm 37. Hell, I hope I'm married and have kids before I'm 37. Link to comment
iwishiknew Posted November 29, 2008 Share Posted November 29, 2008 I hope I kiss a girl before I'm 37. Hell, I hope I'm married and have kids before I'm 37. Same with me, but it is not easy. Link to comment
RoxyGril Posted December 2, 2008 Share Posted December 2, 2008 I didn't start kissing until last year when I started dating my bf who I'm still with and I was 21. He was my first to actually start kissing with. I didn't really know how to kiss either and I didn't say anything and he made the first move. It just comes natural I suppose I felt weird about it because I have never really done it before. I only pecked a guy on the lips when I was a freshmen in high school and he went to a different school and invited me to go to homecoming. But, I really never considered that my 1st kiss because after that I never did speak to him again. So, I do consider my bf to be the 1st one that I have kissed. But, don't worry you'll know when the right time is. Just don't tell them that you never been kissed and when you feel like your ready you'll know! Link to comment
dolcedolore Posted December 13, 2008 Share Posted December 13, 2008 hey, well i say dont worry about it!! u still have loads of time! some people just "mature" a bit earlier. im all up for honesty, and while were being honest, lets face it: society is a b!tch, and if u tell a guy ur 22 and have never been kissed, hes probably gonna get a bit freaked out, so i say just keep it to yourself, and like sweetie33 says, just go with the flow...its almost in our nature to kiss, ull get the hang of it! This doesn't really seem to be helpful to the OP's statement, so I just thought I'd give my two cents on this. Maturity has absolutely nothing to do with kissing the opposite sex. Let's face it, there are plenty of immature 12-15 year old parents out there who have had more sex than a 22-year old who has never been kissed and (assuming here) has a good life-style. Some guys may be "freaked out" by a girl who has never been kissed, mainly the guys how sleep around all the time, but it doesn't sound like the OP would want one of those guys, so I doubt it's worth worrying about. I personally know many good guys out there who would not care whether or not a girl has kissed before, and most of these good guys would be glad that their girl has morals and high self-esteem, as opposed to someone who "just 'matures' a bit earlier." Link to comment
lost1607307474 Posted December 13, 2008 Share Posted December 13, 2008 I wouldn't worry about this at all. Who cares! I don't think you would need to let the guy know. Just go with the flow and see what happens. Don't stress about it Link to comment
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