Borashi Posted January 14, 2006 Share Posted January 14, 2006 I met this girl, she manages a retail store, we talked a total of about 5 times in since May. Everytime she's shown interest in me, last 2 times, we hung out at her workplace cause thats where I go to see her and then went groc. shopping with her one day. How do I show her that I'm serious about dating her and that I want to be with her? I have a feeling she isn't quite sure what I want from her, even though I know that she is physically and mentally attracted to me through things she's said like she'll have to give me a tour of her apartment sometime and other things like that. I want to initiate contact, but it's hard to reach her on her cellphone. I don't want to invade her privacy of work by coming in there and talking to her if even she wants it, I just want to go on a real date with her and have fun. Link to comment
Ghostrider4042005 Posted January 14, 2006 Share Posted January 14, 2006 just open up to her be more open to touching than you normally would tell her you feel for her n want to get more emotionally involved ask her out to dinner or coffee sometime man Link to comment
annie24 Posted January 14, 2006 Share Posted January 14, 2006 Why is she so hard to reach on her cell phone? I agree, ask her out on a date. Dinner, maybe a movie or a walk. Get to know her. good luck Link to comment
Carnatic Posted January 14, 2006 Share Posted January 14, 2006 Informality is definitely the way to go. I've known girls who were hard to reach by mobile before, and also who I knew through work (university in my case, she was a PhD student) so I know how frustrating it can be when you can't seem to get talking to her in the right environment to be a little more flirtatious and ask her out. I would suggest asking her if she wants to meet somewhere a little quieter for a coffee... she should get the hint Link to comment
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