pizzachick13 Posted January 5, 2006 Share Posted January 5, 2006 For anyone who wants a pat on the back for not SI'ing for a particular time, please post it here. I'll start. I haven't cut in over 4 months now and I'm not planning on starting up again... EVER. My girlfriend is helping me so much by keeping me in a good mood (and she's REALLY good at that) and just by being there when I need to talk. I think everyone needs someone like this. It really helps when you need to talk and you have someone to talk to. If no one has someone like this, you can always email me and I'll get back to you asap. Link to comment
melrich Posted January 5, 2006 Share Posted January 5, 2006 That's great pizzachick! We are really glad to hear you are going so well! Link to comment
MissJones Posted January 5, 2006 Share Posted January 5, 2006 That's fantastic pizzachick. I don't even know you and I want to hug you for it That's the best news I've heard all day even if it's from a complete and total stranger. It's fantastic you have such a wonderful girlfriend to give you support. And all the people here will support you too to alleviate any pain you may feel. I don't know your background and why you used to harm yourself but whatever the reason, you're an invaluable person to many. We all are whether we realise it or not. So keep talking to your friend, punch some pillows, have a cold shower, eat a chili - anything to stop you harming yourself is great. You go girl! Link to comment
LiquidCherry Posted January 5, 2006 Share Posted January 5, 2006 Great job! Be really proud of yourself! I haven't SI in over 9 years and the more time that goes by the more foreign it seems that I used to do that.. I learned to write. Write, write, write. It's great you have someone to help you out of this but don't ever forget how strong YOU are! Link to comment
pizzachick13 Posted January 6, 2006 Author Share Posted January 6, 2006 Congratulations LiquidCherry. 9 years is awesome. You're right, after a while you start thinking "now why did I ever do that?" Thanks for all the praise. It helps Anyone else out there who hasn't cut? It can be as short as 1 hour or as long as 9 years like LiquidCherry. Link to comment
ShySoul Posted January 9, 2006 Share Posted January 9, 2006 pizzachick, this is a great idea. People who have faced their problem and addressed it should get some recognition for their achievement. To you pizzachick and to you LiquidCherry, congrats on what you have accomplished. Keep up the good work. And to all others who haven't SI'ed in awhile congrats as well. Please, don't be shy. We want to hear your story. Link to comment
Moon Goddess Posted January 11, 2006 Share Posted January 11, 2006 Congrats on both you guys As for me I have not cut or SI in 2 months my case is similar my bf helped me alot I couldn't of done it without him and my best friends they have helped a great deal and Congradulations to all those who are making it it's not easy to quit Link to comment
ShySoul Posted January 12, 2006 Share Posted January 12, 2006 Good going Moon Goddess. I know how hard its been for you, but you are doing good and making progress. Keep it up. And I'm here for you if you ever need anything. Link to comment
pizzachick13 Posted January 13, 2006 Author Share Posted January 13, 2006 Congratulations to everyone. Giving up isn't easy, but once you have the support you need and the will to stop then it gets easier every day. Any more stories out there? People who haven't SI'd for a time? Doesn't matter how long or short, it's at least a start Link to comment
Moon Goddess Posted January 18, 2006 Share Posted January 18, 2006 Thanks ShySoul I guess you know me pretty well, well yea 2 months going on 3 good luck to me Link to comment
estelle Posted January 27, 2006 Share Posted January 27, 2006 well done everyone. i am finding it very difficult to stop SIing and i applaud anyone who has managed to stop. i will not give up and it is good to know that there are people who have overcome it. thank you Link to comment
Moon Goddess Posted January 27, 2006 Share Posted January 27, 2006 Weird fact is two months since i have not SI and two months since I started dating Dregnought ^_^ YAY me Link to comment
Tigris Posted February 1, 2006 Share Posted February 1, 2006 Congratulations everyone keep up the good work! Link to comment
xtina Posted February 2, 2006 Share Posted February 2, 2006 Congrats people =D its great to hear these kinda stuff! makes others feel like they can do it ^_^ I'm trying to control myself today, as I'm scared * * * *less of razors. Exacly last week I had to get stiches. Man, these "big" things have to happen for a person to realise... "wow! what the hell am I doing to myself!" I hope people don't have to get to these stages, because it is very unconfortable to tell the doctor how it happened and telling your parents why you went to the clinic (if you are underaged). Good luck with yall! Link to comment
ShySoul Posted February 4, 2006 Share Posted February 4, 2006 xtina - Whatever it took you to get to stopping, it doesn't matter. Hope you are doing well. And I hope for everyone else cutting and injuring themselves, that they read these stories and see that they don't have to be hurting themselves like that. Link to comment
Dregnought Posted February 5, 2006 Share Posted February 5, 2006 Congrats on both you guys As for me I have not cut or SI in 2 months my case is similar my bf helped me alot I couldn't of done it without him and my best friends they have helped a great deal and Congradulations to all those who are making it it's not easy to quitMG, my lover, has also helped me out. A few times i wanted to cut, the only reason why i didnt was for her. Too scared to hurt her. Thanks ShySoul I guess you know me pretty well, well yea 2 months going on 3 good luck to me has it really been that long? 3 months on the 11th. Wow. Weird fact is two months since i have not SI and two months since I started dating Dregnought ^_^ YAY me ^_^ Yay for us! makes me feel that little more loved and special. We are one - I'm trying to control myself today, as I'm scared * * * *less of razors.Unfortuently, so am i. I still havent fully recovered, my first session is this Wedensday. Hopes things go right. Link to comment
xtina Posted February 5, 2006 Share Posted February 5, 2006 first session of what? counceling? Link to comment
ShySoul Posted February 5, 2006 Share Posted February 5, 2006 Dreg - Glad to see you are going. Don't be nervous or anything, everything will go well. And I may be a little early, but happy 3 month anniversary for you and MG. Link to comment
xtina Posted February 5, 2006 Share Posted February 5, 2006 Dreg, things WILL go alright! you jsut have to be really honest, and there is no need to lie. good luck with it! post about it when u can! Link to comment
Moon Goddess Posted February 6, 2006 Share Posted February 6, 2006 Thanks ShySoul I'm exited Our Aniversary then 3 days later Valentines Day wow 2 reasons to celebrate our love, things are going pretty good Link to comment
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