When the Girl is older.

[Aueft]

Well, I've seen a lot of opinions about the guy being a few years older. However, what are everyone's thoughts concerning when the -girl- is older? 15 and 18. I don't think it's too bad. However, it wouldn't be an issue if she was like 30 and the guy was 27. Thoughts.

[melrich]

Nope, no issue at all. I think it is becoming more common nowadays for the woman to be older than the man in relationships.

[iceis17]

me and my boyfriend just broke up.. he was 17 and i 20... lol... its weird being the girl...

 

but i dont think its an issue

[misery12]

Some people feel it's an issue because at 15 and 18 you're at different points in your life, such as at 15, you're concerned about friends/school, things like that.. at 18 you're an adult and usually have a job, car, and are getting your own life together.

 

27/30 are much more the same stage in life, so that's basically why..

 

Also, it might be considered rape where you live if the woman is 18, and the guy is 15.

[benevolent]

I have to agree...a 3 year age gap is nothing extreme. However, I think once you are in the 10+ year ranges, then I think the issues tend to increase.

[ComputerGuy]

3 years is nothing at your ages...I say go for it and good luck

[Lil]

well i'm in a 3 year dif relationship. I'm the older one. For the most part, I hardly notice. When we talk about thinks like having kids and birth control and so on, there seems to be valley's between us.

[Ajay Kumar]

I, m in 10 yrs. gap. I m 30 and my gf 39+ .

 

Actually relationship is depend on the faith to each other. I m married and she also but we both r fair to each other. we share our emotions, problems and we have also physical relationship.

 

This relation between us from a long time of 8 yrs, then i couldnt marriage. She has 2 children. My wife or his husband dont confuse for this. Because we have a faithfull relationship.

 

So age is not a factor for the relationship

 

Thanks

[qpmomma]

I, m in 10 yrs. gap. I m 30 and my gf 39+ .

 

And there are groups online for older women/younger men relationships.

 

link removed is a good one.

 

Christina

[darkblue]

I think it's more to do with maturity than actual age.

[RayKay]

One of my good friends (actually an ex of mine) is 26 and with a 43-year old woman.

 

They both have a great time together, though are both aware that it won't be forever, he wants to have natural children and not have the issue also of someone aging so much faster then him (I mean when he is 40 she would be 58, etc).

[Sania]

well..I don't know anyone close to me who has been or had been in any such relationship but I have heard of many such couples. I think if the couple is comfortable with each other than such age differences don't really matter. I even know about some couples where the girl i taller than the guy and still they are happy and comfortable with each other.

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[LiL Miss Jenn]

Hey...

 

Well, when I was 21, I was with this guy who was 18. The age difference bothered me a little bit at 1st because I was used 2 being with older guys, or guys who are at least my age. This guy was mature though, so I figured it was ok.

 

As time passed, I started to be bothered by the age difference even more. There were times I wanted to go to lounges, bars or clubs and couldn't because he wasn't of age. After a while, I lost interest. I think the reason for that was because I thought about it soooo much, I just couldn't get it out of my head.

 

However, if from the beginning, you BOTH feel ok with the age difference, I think it will work. I was uneasy about it from the beginning but gave it a shot. Try it out, it may work for you.

 

Good Luck!!!

[Southern_Belle]

My ex is 21 and I'm 26.

I dated 33-yr-old guy before and didn't feel that much age difference. But since my ex was in a different stage of life from me, it made more trouble than when I dated an older guy.

So I think it's the different stage of life which matters not the age itself.