Should I leave this relationship

[Usy111]

So me and this girl were dating around 5 years ago, she seemed to like me a lot. I knew that someone else was interested in her but convinced myself that she wouldn't be interested in that guy as she seemed happy with me. About 4 months in to the relationship, one of my friends found out that she was engaged to him. I confronted her but she said no, although my gut feeling knew that she was lying so I stopped talking to her, she did keep messaging me afterwards but I kept ignoring her. A few months later I found out she got married, by then I had completely deleted her off everything. That was 5 years ago, she had a divorce around about 18 months after that. We got back in touch last year and are back together and things were good at first, but I am kind of having regrets about it now as we have been arguing a lot lately. It sometimes feels as though she wants me to chase her even though I do a lot for her already, and I have also found out that she's had quite a few boyfriends since her divorce which also makes me uncomfortable. I think she likes it when guys pine for her but I've always been the type to never chase people, sometimes I feel like she ignores me for a day or two to see if I'd chase her but I also don't like that she seems quite friendly with other guys. I know I should start to let go as this relationship feels unhealthy but I feel too attached to her, advice on what I should do would be helpful. Thank you

[Wiseman2]

Leave the past in the past.

You may have thought this is like comfortable old slippers, but they're also worn out.

You're not getting along. Step back and reflect on that.

 

[Umadbroyolo]

Hiya friend,

 

I think she is just playing games with you, better to let go of this one, you deserve so much better.

[Rose Mosse]

 

[Hollyj]

I am so confused.  

This woman lied about being engaged, and was cheating on her fiancé.   What made her such a prize in your eyes?  Do you usually seek  drama and women you cannot trust?   Do you find this exciting?

You don't like yourself much, do you?

[SooSad33]

Yeah... you went and accepted a woman back, whom you were short-term involved with- and who was cheating on her fiance with you?

Then take her back..again, a few yrs later, after her kinda short-term marriage.. I wonder why that happened..?

Think on all of this.

She is not someone worth worrying over.  Look at her track record 😕