Bf hasn't planned anything for Valentines.

[Batya33]

It's a very personal thing, all this, isn't it? I've always found the very commercial bunches of flowers/chocolates/balloons with hearts on etc etc very embarrassing; I'm also happy NOT to go out on Valentine's Day because you can guarantee that all the nice places will be packed to the rafters and there won't be any parking spaces! (Plus inflated prices).

 

Neither my partner nor I really care about it; however, his birthday is on 13th February, I always give him a hand-drawn card and always have more than one idea, and end up giving two cards - one for his birthday and the other for Valentine's Day. They always refer to in-jokes or other things of current amusement. Because I give him a card, he feels duty-bound to do likewise. This year I got a beautiful card, the original of which was a mixed media print I'd admired in a gallery a while ago. It features a wild boar.

 

Perhaps not everyone's idea of romance, but it works for us!

 

It sounds lovely!!!