Friends with a male coworker

[HeartGoesOn]

Another option would be to invite him over for dinner where he can meet your husband. Maybe he could use another friend?

[abitbroken]

I would in the future - whether male or female, do not allow a coworker to badmouth their spouse to you. Redirect the conversation. I mean, there are exceptons - if a coworker comes in obviously trying to cover up a black eye and is choking back tears - that's completely different - but you would direct that person towards helps or cover for them "if you need some fresh air, I'll go walk the report to the boss." But don't let them wallow or let a man confide in you

[greendots]

Some married men don't wear their wedding ring all the time, thus seeing someone not wear one means squat. Plus, actions speak louder than words. He requested space, respect that and focus on your life.