GaryBlue94 Posted September 1, 2019 Share Posted September 1, 2019 Hello, On Friday I broke up with my girlfriend of over a year and a half. I was feeling a lot of doubts in my mind and felt like I needed to be on my own. This also went in a cycle with feeling like I wanted to be with her forever, eventually the former got so overwhelming that I concluded it was time to let go. She was really good to me, treated me well & is honestly one of the nicest people I’ve ever met. I do believe she is one in a million in terms of the type of girl she is however despite this I still had that gut feeling telling me to end things. Why did I feel this overwhelming feeling to end things if she was as mentioned above? The confusing thing for me is now I feel like I miss her and am now doubting my own decision but when with her I had the feeling I didn’t want to be with her and could see myself being distant i.e. looking for excuses not to spend time with her etc. So I thought the best thing to do for myself and for her was to end the relationship. On top of feeling like I might regret the decision I also feel like I will never find someone like her again. I am really confused and not sure why I am feeling this way as I thought if I ended it I would be relieved and feel like I had done the right thing except rather than feeling confident I had made the right decision I am spending my time trying to get over my doubt & sadness by trying to convince myself I done the right thing. Can anyone provide any insight? Link to comment
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