Something special?

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In my defence, I did not know this person was in a relationship right away. I didn't set about myself to fall in love with a man in this position.

 

I think your responses mostly are really negative. The situation is definitely far from ideal, I get that, but no one really gives him the benefit of the doubt?

 

What if, actually, he is going to end the relationship when he returns to the US and is waiting to do it face to face? While I'm not being stupidly optimistic here, I do try to be realistic and sometimes people are actually good. Perhaps that's the only way he knows how to deal with this situation?

 

Rather than call her up and break up with her on the phone while he's away.

 

I'm just trying to look at this from a few angles here.

 

You don't need to know someone inside out to feel love for them. So then, if we both feel love, what should we do?

 

People meet someone special when they're already in a relationship all the time. Why'd you all have to jump on the man/woman hating wagon so quick?

Update: Okay looks like you cleared this up. You dodged a bullet.