wolflovesmoon Posted March 13, 2018 Share Posted March 13, 2018 Hi y’all I just need a different point of view about a situation, i pretty much knew how to handle it ( i guess) but some different input won’t hurt. I met this girl online, we texted for few days, we went on a date and we did have a good time, great and deep conversation, long hugs and kisses as we said bye, we agreed to do it again ( it was a Saturday) Then it all felt like she was distancing herself, so i asked her straight ahead if she is still interested or if she changed her mind and that i understand that she is busy etc ( this was on the following Thursday) Her response “ Joe thank you for being so nice. I really enjoyed hanging out with u. Ur really fun to talk to. Truth is I'm preoccupied. I was seeing someone for a couple of months and realized he doesn't want a relationship. I thought I'd try to get my mind off of him by trying to meet someone new. I feel guilty because maybe I should just be single for a little longer but I'm lonely too..sorry to send mixed signals. I have too many emotions. Trying to clear my head. Again I'm really sorry for causing u any confusion. I hate feeling this way” My response: “Thanks for letting me know how you feel. I wish there was a way i can help you with what you are going thru, but i am gonna let you figure it out yourself, if you do, and you want to see if we have a chance at this, please reach out. Enjoy your weekend “ I haven’t contacted her since then or heard from her and i don’t expect to hear anything, even thou i liked the girls and i wish it was different. Thanks in advance. Link to comment
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