tknightt Posted January 10, 2018 Share Posted January 10, 2018 Here's a little of my history: I'm 40yrs old, 3 childrens from the same mother, seperated 1 yr ago, were together 17 years. Met someone, good chemistry, moved in last month after a few months of dating. Here's my problem, most of the time everything is super, we work well together, she also has 2 kids with almost full custody. Overall the children also work well together (as well as 5 children with similar ages 9-15). for the most part (95%) of the time we have fun together ! Once is a while, my girlfriend will get really defensive about my ex spouse, saying things like she doesn't feel she will ever by as perfect as her. I don't believe my ex was ever perfect, who is anyways ? She will also get very distant and be much more aggressive in her comments to a point where she doesn't even want my help at all. It doesn't last very long, 1-2 days every couple of months. When she does get like this in turn me upside down, I do really love her for who she is, I've never compared her, there are some thing she does that irk me and likewise for her. We both try and work on these issues and most of the time it doesn't create any problems per say. But when she does get "emotional" these issues come up first hand, she will try and attack anything she can about me or my children. Is this common, I don't have any experience with mood swings if this is the case... need some help ! Link to comment
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