Justhere88 Posted December 29, 2017 Share Posted December 29, 2017 Hi everyone. I just wanted to ask if someone had experience with this or has some advice or comment. I was with my ex for two years. Did a lot for him like helping him find a job and after just a few months he moved with me as we were in love and decided he shouldn’t be looking for a flat but instead move with me to save money so we can see how things go. It’s been great and we travelled a lot and still I was helping him with money and travelling together and cost of it as I earn more and he was still new to the city. Many times I noticed he never did nice things for me like get me flowers or even think of me so I was trying to talk to him as he was younger than me and fix things. But over time I became depressed as he wouldn’t be someone I deserved and someone I felt wasn’t there for me. But he was loving and cuddly. He would text me many times a day calling me bunny and telling me he loves me and wants to marry me. He wasn’t showing it though. Many times we almost broke up when he finally said he would work on himself and Try. It lasted about a month and things would get back to normal. We were supposed to move to our flat and been saving money for it as it was the next step in a relationship but long story short we found a flat to see and I found out he wasn’t saving any money for deposit or anything. He was spending it on himself but wasn’t putting anything toward the relationship. So I decided to talk and asked him to move out and take a break. He swore he wanted to marry me and said maybe in a month he will be better and we will Make it. He said “I’m sure of it”. I left for Christmas and asked him to move while I was gone and ...never heard from him. Christmas passed - no Christmas wishes. No hello. No nothing. I left him xmas gift and he never texted me a thank you. He moved (my flat mate told me) and didn’t even send me a formal “I moved” note. Nothing. It’s been 3 weeks and still nothing l. It’s like I never existed. What the hell? Can someone explain this to me ? Link to comment
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