bluemt001 Posted December 22, 2017 Share Posted December 22, 2017 I was almost 3 year relationship when ex-boyfriend left me because he said he was unhappy. However in the end I found out he left me for someone else. I foolishly thought in the beginning he was confused since two week before the break up, we were celebrating his birthday; and we even were so lovey dovey but I guess in the end I was just a complete idiot to not realize that is all a lie. He obviously moved on so easily. After 10 days he broke up, he officially socialize that he has new girlfriend from work. It hurt like hell after hearing that news. I even tried to reconcile with him few day after the breakup too. I even gave him my last long love letter, speech, text, video and hug to fight a love that I thought we had but I guess it meant nothing. He said to our friends that he is happier with her and deep deep down in my heart I was trying to be glad for him but I question myself did he ever love me? I know it's a silly question maybe he did once but why did he not communicate with me if he was losing interest of us or even me? Why did he prolong this relationship? He even said he loved me few days before the break up. Why? I wondered if I tried harder or something would he still be with me? Maybe I am being dumb but I think if I fought harder for us maybe he would stay. I just don't get how he can easily forget about us like that. I know compare to beginning of break up I feel better but they are days that I wish this was only nightmare not reality. Maybe I am hoping he will come back but i need to face it he probably won't. And it hurts. I really thank from the bottom of heart my family. They have given me alot love and support, which has help me alot in the beginning of days of the breakup but I can't burden them all the time hearing my problems. So, I have keep my emotions hidden towards them. I need to face this alone and be strong but it sometimes hard. He was first love. He was my best friend. I even thought we were soulmate but I guess I was wrong. He wasn't a bad boyfriend to me at least those 2 years and half month. He treated me nice but at the end he did acted like an idiot with his actions. I must admit that I thought it was lie that time heals a broken heart. And it has. Don’t get me wrong. I still haven’t completely heal but compare to the beginning at least I am not crying as much and thinking about him everyday. I know this year wasn’t best year for me but I just hope next year will better. So for anyone, who has dumped for someone else? My question is how to did you handle it? And how long did it took you forget about him/her? Link to comment
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