Jan2728
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Sweetgirl28 yeah you're such a mom. But it's nice, we all need to be and accept who we are. I don't want to be fearful. I felt fear, "manipulation" as in using no contact to get an ex back (and I've worked on myself in these 30 days) had backfired. Then I realized I have no control over the situation. Going towards my ex wouldn't have worked either. (Admittedly I was fearful to do so and logically it hadn't worked for his ex , she called /contacted before ,during and after our relationship. So why would it work for me?) If they want to come back, they will. That's the bottom line.
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Great. Happy holidays and let us know how it goes. Amazing job Piaresssss
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Piaresssssss all sounds good. Good luck.
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And yes around Thanksgiving and not again.
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Ok but I don't exactly understand that logic. He does seem to want to have an excuse , but we can't be no contact forever if we're going to get back together. That is my goal, my wish. I don't have to contact him but I'd like to respond and set a date if he reaches out and get this reconciliation going. Im not in NC to "get over it" mostly i feel better , yes but I want back together. Thoughts? Thank you for your response sg
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I'm in a bad place today. If anyone could help, that would be great. Its been maybe 23 days. The holidays may be getting to me as Christmas was special to us. He reached out around Thanksgiving and I did respond. At some point one of us has to say something if there's a chance of us being together right??
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Just keep up the no contact for now. It does get better. ❤
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Yep he's the man for sure.
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I'm about the same I'd say. Feel pretty good which is new for me to feel good this many days in a row, but reminders of my ex everywhere. . . Confused is ok, mixed is better than straight up sad. Hang in there.
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Don't cut your hair too much , you'll miss it. Yeah the weekend is better so far . . .hope you're doing good. Hang in there
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Just checking in , hang in there. I had maybe a day and a half that was good , very rough week. What helped was getting my hair done, going out with a friend and agreeing to a date with his friend. My ex is dating and has even had sex so why not? I had a couple dates before but waste because I'm still too focused on my ex at the time. But am hanging in there over 2 weeks now. Good luck all.
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Don't do it. If you want to reconcile, you can't get emotional or ask questions like that. No contact helps hide that you are emotional which would only push them away. Wait , you'll calm down in a few weeks. Post here instead.
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You want your ex back? Things to avoid certain doom!
Jan2728 replied to SuperDave71's topic in Getting Back Together
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Hang in there Im with you.