xcookie7x Posted December 14, 2017 Share Posted December 14, 2017 I am really torn on what to do. I know I'm emotional at times and I don't know if this is honestly a problem or if it's all in my own head and I'm making a big deal out of nothing.. Long story short I've been dating this guy for months now. He seemed head over heels for me. He brought up wanting to be exclusive, saying that other girls just don't do it for him. And he's only been seeing me. So, I agreed saying that I'd only date him and see where it takes us. As we both are so crazy over each other and so similar it's eerie lol. Each time we see one another we seem to get closer and bond better, however his texting has slowed down a lot almost to a hault. He has said to me that he is a horrible texter and hates it and when I have been with him in person he's opened texts from friends that were sent weeks ago, so I'm assuming he is being honest about that. So, I have been the one to initiate pretty much all of the conversation when we're apart now. He did text me asking how my Thanksgiving was. And he texted me two days ago when he was really excited to show me music he has been working on. (He does it in his free time).. When I see him in person everything seems great, I've met all his family and best friends and his coworkers. He's thrown out ideas in person of things we have to do and taking me to the city. Invited me to join him at his friends band practice with all the guys. And he insists on paying for everything. Also, takes pictures of us whenever we're together and posts them to the public for everyone to see and will caption it "his girl".. I've asked him a week ago if he's only dating me because I want to make sure I'm on the same page as him and he said "of course i'm only dating you." Also I know this might sound stupid but on snapchat we both are rated as talking to one another the most, meaning he sends me pictures more than anyone else on there and you can't fake that so I mean I do think he is very much into me.. The thing is, I'm always the one to initiate. On our first 2 dates he asked to see me. Now I'm always the one asking to see him and setting up actual days. Is this a big deal? Am I overthinking? Everything else seems great in person. He makes moves and seems to try taking it to the next level bit by bit. But when it isn't face to face I rarely ever get a text from him. And he never asks to see me, it's always me asking. It's confusing me because when we do see one another he's so romantic and sweet and will be a gentlemen and doesn't "hide" me from anyone he's totally open about me. Today I texted him asking if he wants to hang out for Monday (that's always his day off) and he hasn't replied yet and it's been about 3 hours. And he's not working today. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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