mjp Posted November 29, 2017 Share Posted November 29, 2017 Hello. My ex and I broke up in the beginning of September and it was a mutual decision. We were engaged and have a really strong bond. We still see each other often and talk every day. He told me he is looking for a girlfriend but it doesn't mean he wants to marry her or have a family with her and that he still loves me. He told me he is looking for someone to have sex with because he can't go however long we are apart without sex but he doesn't want them to feel used so that is why they would be dating. He also told me we can still see each other when he has a girlfriend. He said it's a GIRL - FRIEND not a relationship. He once told a girl that he was trying to use her as a rebound...this was about a month and a half ago. He is now on dating sites trying to meet someone else. I'm afraid he is going to end up getting feelings for someone else. Do you think he is just looking for a rebound and I shouldn't worry about anything? He is a very honest person and has told me multiple times not to overthink everything but just to listen to him. We both have a lot of things to work on and I think he's just afraid of being alone but I am scared. Link to comment
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