Choosegratitude1 Posted November 22, 2017 Share Posted November 22, 2017 My bf and I have been together for 1 yr and 5 months. After the first 4 moths he cheated on me with his previous gf. He says she looked for him but he decided to roll with the whole thing. He begged for me to take him back and we decided to try and make it work. I never truly got over the whole thing and I constantly threw the cheating in his face. I never suspected he cheated on me again since we had been back together. Recently, after 11 months of having been back together i caught him messaging another ex gf who he had an even longer relationship with (4 yrs on and off) i assumed automatically he was cheating and he didnt deny it at the time. He claims he truly didnt want to be together anymore because I wasnt healing from the cheating incident and our relationship was slowly going nowhere but he was having a hard time figuring out how to tell me. Now its been a month later and he came back crying saying he made a mistake and he doesnt want to be without me, he lied and said he didnt sleep with anyone. I spoke the ex gf and she claims he was begging to see her so she let him and they had sex. But, my ex bf is saying she wanted to get back with him and she wanted to move in with him ( she has a son from another man whom she cheated on him with) and live like a family. But he told her he was in love with me and he didnt want to be with anyone and that was the end of that.. she blocked me on social media which makes me believe she grew anger towards me because he didnt want to be with her because of me.. idk what to believe. It makes sense but at the same time im wondering why he went back to an ex a 2ns time.. he says it was familiar grounds.. Link to comment
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