CONFUSED214 Posted November 17, 2017 Share Posted November 17, 2017 My GF and I were together for about 5 months. Things were great except for some of my questioning her online activity which challenged her. All communication stopped after one of these arguments. I sent her an apology and she did not respond. I sent her a "sad" face emoji the next day and received no reply. I knew she needed some cooling off and that I had really pushed the limits. i knew things were bad after 3 days but I decided that my apology had to stand for itself ... so i stayed NC. After 2 weeks, i sent her a "HEART" on fb messenger and an mssg alert said "Message was "SENT but not delivered". 4 days later she still had not seen that i had sent it. So, I wrote her a message. " I tried to message you, but my Messages say SENT, but not DELIVERED. I guess you have me blocked or muted." With that message, I UNFRIENDED her. I was hurt and mad. People get through a lot worse situations than this and if i am not any more important than that ... then"F" it. I regret how it ended and i take responsibility for it and I probably deserve what I got. I own that. My questions are: Did she probably want more effort on my part? (2) Did she get mad that i waited 12 days before making contact after my apology? (3) Was she teaching me a lesson that just went too far with our 2 egos colliding? (4) Did I really screw it up by UNFRIENDING her? I meet lots of girls, so my life is good, but, this was an amazing girl I joined this site because I want to be a better person and the only way i can do better next time ... is to not make the same mistakes. 4 months later ...Is it worth trying to salvage a friendship out of it? .... since, (from my perspective) the window of "magic" for us has passed. Link to comment
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