HeartviaVegas Posted November 6, 2017 Share Posted November 6, 2017 I've been with my b boyfriend for 4years and 9moths. We don't live with each other yet. He lives with his sister and her boyfriend. Although we've been talking about living together recently. Long story short, last night we had dinner at Capriottis and headed to my place so we can watch our Sunday show...The Walking Dead. While waiting for the show to come on, we were in bed talking and on our phones. I was on instagram and noticed he changed his Instagram name. So I clicked on his instagram and noticed he posted a mask. So I clicked on his likes and noticed that one of his friends who he used to work with liked his picture. I clicked on her profile just to check it out and saw that he went to see Cat in Utah on October 13. They had pictures together and she took pictures of him. On one of the pictures she posted, "My friend Mike came to Utah". I was upset, broken, and sad when I saw the picture. I felt all types of emotion. I was devastated. Earlier that week of October the 13th he told me he was working a double on Saturday and Sunday. I thought nothing about it because he's worked a double before over the weekend. So I was fine with it. I even played around with him and said, "are you sure you're not going to see someone else?" He said, "No". We did argue about this girl Cat a year ago because she would post about going to have breakfast with him on Facebook before and I questioned it. His reply was he's never had breakfast with her. Also when she moved to Utah he helped her move by loading the Uhaul truck with her stuff. Yeah, I never knew about that either. On top of that, I've met all his friends except her. As a good girlfriend I told him that Id like to meet her and maybe have breakfast with her. He said it would never happen because she moved. Anyway, I cried last night and asked him why he lied about working a double that weekend? He said he just needed to get out of Vegas because things weren't going well with his car, family, and the shooting that happened. He said I wasn't one of them the problems. He said he went and got a hotel the first night and ended up sleeping on her couch. He took off from work on Friday Saturday and Sunday just to spend time in Utah. He apologized and I just didn't want to hear it. I love him and thought I could spend the rest of my life with him. Regardless of his infedelity I accepted who he is and what he can't provide me. I've been patient with him. This hurts. I don't know what to do? I need great advice, wisdom, and strength right now. Link to comment
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