iman Posted September 20, 2017 Share Posted September 20, 2017 I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months now and we don't have many other main issues apart from communication. We're long distance and see each other around once a month, sometimes once every two months so for me communication is so important to keep our relationship going strong. Personally I would love to talk to him every day for at least 10 minutes on the phone just to see how his day was/have a general catch up. However, he has told me that for him, constant communication is not something he's very good at and he has said that he could go even a week without feeling the need to talk (i found this so strange) but he has also told me that he loves me very much and not to take this a sign that he doesn't love me. I have made my feelings clear to him that ideally I would like to talk to him at least once every other day on the phone just to catch up. However, he has recently gone off the radar for three days (he is on holiday at the moment so I was thinking about letting this slide as I know how much he loves his time with his friends). However, I'm scared that I won't be able to deal with this in the long run and I'm also scared that the more I mention this to him, the more put off he'll be of me and feel a sort of obligation to talk to me when he doesn't want to. How do I go about this? Considering I hardly see him as it is, I really don't think I'm asking for too much. In my eyes, if we hardly see each other and also go 3-4 days without saying anything to each other, I end up feeling very distant from him and it doesn't feel like much of a relationship. Any advice? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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