Lovelavie Posted August 28, 2017 Share Posted August 28, 2017 I have always been an overthinker, but the more time passes, the more I feel trapped inside my own head. I feel like I always feel things too intensely. I started a new phase in my life where I finally do not feel anything towards my ex, I found out he cheated on me and this has numbed out any feelings I could possibly have towards him. However, this has lead to me obsessing with a guy I've been crushing on for 7 months now. I think about him all the time and even though I know we won't be together since he's got a GF, I feel like I'm so used to thinking that my ex was the best person I had ever had that when I finally came to the conclusion he wasn't I had to deposit all this thinking about someone else. I am also overwhelmed because I recently got an opportunity to go to a job where I'll earn a lot more but in compensation I don't feel appealed by the things I'll be doing there, so I'm extremely confused (I am a very indecisive person, when I make a decision I rarely regret it, but the process of making one is so overwhelming and stressful for me) I'm also not happy with my life in general, I feel like I always have to numb out my feelings by going to parties (don't get me wrong, I love going to techno parties and I'm picky about the places I go to because I do have fun in the right place), but all weekends it's all the same and it's getting old. Last week I had a bunch of anxiety attacks, I stopped eating on purpose so I would focus on my hunger instead of my feelings, I also was unhappy with my body (I have an average weight but I got this vibe where I wanted to get really thin). I was eating a bunch of junk food so it was good to stop eating that, but I forced myself to feel hungry and focus on my body instead of my mind. This has lessened down a little but I still can't eat normally without thinking I'm overeating. I'm tired of feeling anxious about everything, of trembling and not being able to breathe when I have those attacks, I feel like my mind is always working way too much. Sometimes I just want to move to another country and start all over. I live in Brazil and I do wish to move no another country as it has always been my wish, but for the past months I feel like I just want to get a new start, but then again I'm not sure how much this will solve my anxiety problems. I feel like I'm walking in circles. I no longer know what it's like to be in love, I haven't felt butterflies in my stomach in forever, and the more I'm single the more I wish to be as I keep meeting guys that make no effort to be with me whatsoever or either hurt my feelings by lying/cheating. I have no exciting feelings about anything, everything is just really stable and monotonous, but my thoughts keeps going and going. Link to comment
Batya33 Posted August 28, 2017 Share Posted August 28, 2017 I think you're overwhelming yourself by trying to tackle too much at once and fasting just adds to the issue -it's not a good time to fast IMO when you're already feeling anxious. Have you tried the Weil method of 4-7-8 breathing? Google it. Also try for the next week to eat balanced meals 3 times a day and one or two light and healthy snacks, do at least a 30 minute brisk walk or run every single day, and get at least 7-8 hours sleep as your goal. And do the breathing. Those are simple, non-extreme things you can do. I'd try that first and see how that goes and consider speaking with a counselor or therapist. Link to comment
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