nikixx Posted July 19, 2017 Share Posted July 19, 2017 So I met this guy on tinder about a month ago, we agreed to meet in person and went on about 4 dates. We had an amazing time, texted all day for the month we were talking for. We went back to his place a couple times but never did anything as i wasnt comfortable yet and he seemed to have no problem waiting. we talked all the time about us actually dating but the thing is we went on a date on wednesday everything was okay, we kissed goodbye even texted through the night. But the next day i sent a text that he still hasnt read, but he post on snapchat. Also he blocked me on instagram and unmatched with me on tinder. I am just wondering what could have gone wrong as everything seemed perfect we even had plans for the weekend. why did he just disappeared out of nowhere? Link to comment
j.man Posted July 19, 2017 Share Posted July 19, 2017 We went back to his place a couple times but never did anything as i wasnt comfortable yet and he seemed to have no problem waiting.Well apparently he did. Two dates at his place without action and the 4th ended up fruitless (for his purposes). He's done. If you didn't want sex, you lost nothing. In the future, I'd discourage going to guys' places the first couple dates if you're not looking to hook up. He likely would have stopped after the second date had you not agreed to go to his place and he felt he could push the boundaries from there. Link to comment
hyden Posted July 19, 2017 Share Posted July 19, 2017 Nothing went wrong. You met him on tinder. He was ok waiting to sleep with you until he found someone else on tinder. Then he moved on. It sucks that he just cut off contact like that. Link to comment
Stay_home Posted July 22, 2017 Share Posted July 22, 2017 The man was looking for a hook up. Period. Link to comment
ThatwasThen Posted July 22, 2017 Share Posted July 22, 2017 If your goal is to have a serious relationship with someone then I suggest you get off of Tinder and find a dating site that will better help you reach your goal (if there is such a thing in this day and age). Tinder is a known hook-up site. Link to comment
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