candyman111 Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 First time poster. I have been married for 3 years, the last 2 of which have been a disaster. Although I know I am not a perfect husband, my wife drinks heavily, sleeps all the time, and our sex life has dwindled to almost nothing. In the last 2 years I have tried, so hard, to make things better, but she has checked out or just doesn’t care what I think. She has told me as much, that it is all about her and that I didn’t even come into the equation. After trying so hard for the last 2 years, I met someone else at work. We began talking via text about our mutual bad marriages before my wife caught me after a week or so and put an end to it. I told her it was nothing intimate or sexual, but it was all of those things, and I didn’t want it to end. Since we work together, I still see her at work everyday, and we still talk, but we do not text since my wife has access to all phone, e-mail and facebook accounts that I have so that she can keep an eye on me. I feel trapped. Handcuffed and in leg irons. I have tried to tell her how I feel, and she is trying to make things better, but the truth is that I am done, but I cannot find it in me to tell her the truth, because I am a little scared of her. What does that say about me as a man? I’m scared of my Wife? She’s never laid hands on me, but she can be so brutal with words and I feel like I will never get out of this marriage without just packing up and moving to another state. We went away last weekend, trying to rekindle the magic, when all I wanted to do is stay at home and sleep. I’m tired all the time. I don’t even know what the question is here, perhaps there isn’t one, but I just needed to put it out there. Thanks for reading. Link to comment
This topic is now archived and is closed to further replies.