gingerChris Posted June 22, 2017 Share Posted June 22, 2017 Hi all Just to give you some background information first: I have been dating a girl since the beginning on May, been on several dates and she has stayed over at my house a couple of times. On the 5th of June she moved 160 miles away, due to work for 10 months. We decided to give the long distance thing a try and see how it goes (We both have cars). We continued to text a lot and spoke on the phone for at least 30 minutes almost every night. Last weekend we had plans for me to drive to see her and stay in a hotel (I booked the hotel). It was mostly her idea and she seemed excited, looking for things for us to do etc. We didn't speak last Thursday though because she went out with her house mate for the evening. We also had plans for her to visit me for my birthday weekend this weekend. However last weekend just as I was setting off to visit her I received a text from her cancelling because her Grandad had just died. I replied telling her not to worry about it etc and then she replied thanking me for being understanding. After that she has been no longer replying to any of my messages. I sent her a couple asking if she is alright and one today asking if she is still coming to visit this weekend (I asked in a sensitive way). The messages have been read (WhatApp) but she has not replied since last Friday. Do you think she just needs a bit of time and is too busy grieving to deal with me? Or could it just be something she has made up to ditch me? Link to comment
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