SimplyMH Posted April 13, 2017 Share Posted April 13, 2017 Hello, so I've been with my …fiancé? Boyfriend? For almost 6 years. Started living together 3 years ago. We have two handsome boys( 3,10 months) , I wanted to get married and I guess he felt pressured and gave me a ring this New Years. After that he said we would get married in February, we're in April and I asked what's going on?! And he said he isn't feeling it anymore as in getting married. BUT he says he still loves me?! I'm just getting tired of feeling like I'm playing house, you know?! On my birthday 4/6/16 I gave him the ring back and told him I didn't want it until he actually meant it. He didn't say anything. I've asked him if he wants me to change something, or even lose weight. I mean he says I'm perfect, but I know I'm chunky compare to 6 years ago. Yes, he has cheated before and like anyone who's been cheated on, my world collapsed. I just can't see myself without him. I truly love him, but I want to be married and not feel like I'm a placeholder or something like that. He's a great father but I truly don't know if it's just a phase or scared of Commitment?! Does he still love me? Should I just leave with my little ones? Link to comment
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