Thoughts on losing virginity to a prostitute?

[Twinflamer]

Michael,

Going with the consensus, that, there is absolutely no rush. Please don't let your friends bust your chops, they sound incredibly immature. And like another poster commented, can you picture the horror on your future girlfriend's face when you tell her how & who you lost your virginity to? Ahhh. No. Not good.

 

It will be so much more, special, if you waited for someone, whom you cared about for your first time. I know this is probably off base, but do you attend any sort of church services? There are many sweet, young woman there, who are probably waiting to meet someone special for their first time as well. Just a thought.

[Wiseman2]

Agree, big risk. Also it's not like dating real-life girls, you're a customer, not a bf.

If I did it, it would be illegal which is quite honestly one of my biggest issues

 

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[Betterwithout]

Sounds like you are needing some confidence with women. Hooking up with hooker will leave you with an empty wallet and empty heart.

Your first time will be awkward, but very memorable. Make that memories on Tinder, from what I've heard is a good place to hook up for twenty somethings.

Maybe your "friends" can hook you up with someone promiscuous if they are so intent on getting you laid.

[joffie]

Hi,

 

I did it, back in 2014 when I went to Thailand.

 

Now hear me out.

 

I am Australian, however In my country there are no suitable women for me. I tried dating, tinder nothing.. nope nothing at all. I could not even get a woman to acknowledge my existence. TBH Aussie women only like bikies and can be found at the tattoo bar.

 

So after getting rejection after rejection (mind you I was 25 at the time) I went to Thailand where I stupidly went to a "karaoke bar".... yeah.. brought a girl back to my hotel and we had sex.

 

It was expensive.. but do I reject it.. no.

 

3 years on.. and still cannot get any aussie girl to like me. Of course I went to Thailand since then. Straight onto tinder and a match after match. Back into AUS.. not.. a... single.. match..

 

I am also a part time taxi driver... every single Aussie girl I pick up is very quick to tell me about her boyfriend... every single girl.. parden the pun.

 

To be honest.. even back home in Australia I do spend coin every 6-12 months and visit a Brothel. I admit and am not ashaimed of doing it.

 

My point is, my friend, don't bother waiting for that special person because at the end of the day, she aint coming.

 

You can go to Thailand have fun and go to brothel.. or be lonely playing with your right hand. The choice is yours.

[Dahl]

Hi,

 

I did it, back in 2014 when I went to Thailand.

 

Now hear me out.

 

I am Australian, however In my country there are no suitable women for me. I tried dating, tinder nothing.. nope nothing at all. I could not even get a woman to acknowledge my existence. TBH Aussie women only like bikies and can be found at the tattoo bar.

 

So after getting rejection after rejection (mind you I was 25 at the time) I went to Thailand where I stupidly went to a "karaoke bar".... yeah.. brought a girl back to my hotel and we had sex.

 

It was expensive.. but do I reject it.. no.

 

3 years on.. and still cannot get any aussie girl to like me. Of course I went to Thailand since then. Straight onto tinder and a match after match. Back into AUS.. not.. a... single.. match..

 

I am also a part time taxi driver... every single Aussie girl I pick up is very quick to tell me about her boyfriend... every single girl.. parden the pun.

 

To be honest.. even back home in Australia I do spend coin every 6-12 months and visit a Brothel. I admit and am not ashaimed of doing it.

 

My point is, my friend, don't bother waiting for that special person because at the end of the day, she aint coming.

 

You can go to Thailand have fun and go to brothel.. or be lonely playing with your right hand. The choice is yours.

 

I'm not at all saying this with any sarcasm or other rude commentary.

 

I don't know how the example you illustrate above isn't loneliness embodied, however.

 

Paying to relieve yourself sexually once or twice a year with professional sex industry workers, while still reporting absolutely no luck meeting a real-life romantic prospect just sounds so bleak.

 

It doesn't seem like soliciting sex workers has helped you to do anything but ejaculate. Which may be all you're interested in - I'm not critiquing your life choices.

 

But I do think that your experience only goes to illustrate that if the OP follows suit, it will not help him at all with his self-esteem or confidence with women in his real, day to day life. Given his comments, it's precisely the concern that I had for him. If he visits a prostitute or not to divest himself of his virginity, it won't help him find a loving relationship in and of itself.

[radiance]

No, don't lose your virginity with a prostitute.

 

Wait until you meet a girl and form a decent relationship, even if it's just a short term connection. Let it happen in its own time.

 

And ignore your friends. They sound like a source of peer-pressure rather than friendship.

[tomnrachel66]

No...dont do it..u will most likely have an unpleasant experience. Ive lost my virginity due to peer pressure with some random guy at .y school i didnt know..talk about not memorable..so to this day i dont have any fond memories of first loves and meaningful relationships.

[ExperiencedDad]

Im a 21 year old virgin, and all my friends sort of bust my chops about it and are saying that I'm missing out on a great thing. They've tried to help me get girls at first, and now they suggest hiring a prositute, even offering to pay for it. The reason why I don't get a real girl is because I have low self esteem and I'm quite honestly a bit afraid of girls. I've tried to start a few relationships with girls I knew well and felt comfortable with, but they just never panned out. People have given me all the tips in the book to get girls and quite honestly I don't even try them.

 

Anyway, do you think hiring a prostitute would be a good idea to lose my virginity? It could maybe help with self esteem too, but I don't know

 

No, don't do it son.

 

Clean yourself up, buy some stylish duds and practice approaching girls with a smile and "are you here with your boyfriend?". Get into new social situations. Put away any porn and especially masturbation habits and in a couple weeks your blood will boil and you'll naturally become more aggressive in pursuing girls. Awkward can be cool... just don't play games but go straight up to girls you find attractive. Maybe lower your standards.... every girl is beautiful in some way - saying this in case you're one of those guys who only wants the hottest girl and won't settle for average... you may not be able to woo a super hotty with your low self esteem. Good luck.

[Knight2001]

i share pretzel's opinion "Just wait until you are in a relationship and you'll have a much nicer experience"

you do have the rest of your life in front of you, dont feel underpressure. when it happens it happens. it's not something you have to do by a certain age.

as another poster mentioned about diseases. do you want to pick one of these up ?

good luck, and be patient.