mcnn4 Posted March 1, 2017 Share Posted March 1, 2017 So it's been one month since my NC with my ex-boyfriend. We broke up because he said he no longer saw a future with me and that our relationship wasn't 'fun' anymore. He said there were things he wanted to accomplish before getting into a really serious relationship with anyone again. We dated for 10 months and saw each other almost every day in that 10 month period. I guess you can say, he kind of fell out of love with me. But after we broke up, he claimed to still have feelings for me and care deeply for me. And sometimes he would say that he doesn't want to be together right now but maybe we can in the future. We both go to the same university so we've ran into each other once since NC. He waved and smiled at me and I did the same. But we didn't have a conversation. We have been broken up for 1.5 months and have been NC for 1 month. I went NC because I wanted to move on and thought maybe if I gave him space, he'll come back around. I texted him today because I missed him a lot and was just curious what he's up to and kind of thinking maybe there's a chance to get back together. I told myself that if he doesn't reply, then it's even more motivation to never look back and forget about him. And even if he did reply, I expected it to be short and disinterested. But what I got was a quick reply with interest in my life. He's asking me 'whats up?' and when I told him how my life is going he asked further questions about the things that I told him about. At this point I feel like I dug myself into a hole that I don't really know how to get out of or continue being in... I expected the worst but got the opposite? Should I stop texting him? Should I continue and see where it goes? What are the odds that I have a chance of getting back together with him? Is he just texting me back out of guilt? Link to comment
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