elliesays99 Posted February 15, 2017 Share Posted February 15, 2017 My long distance bf and I had been dating for about 7 months. We have been planning on me moving to his province for about 3 months as I always said if we had no plans to be together i didn't want to be in a relationship. I never felt like I was forcing him into anything though, there was no time limit.. I just couldn't do long distance long term. I went to visit him at the end of January to celebrate my birthday and to finish planning the move out there, he has been so excited for me to final move and I had been ecstatic! My visit was going perfectly so far, we celebrate my birthday with him surprising me with breakfast in bed, presents and a beautiful dinner. The next day we had a silly little fight and the first thing he says was "if this is how it's going to be i don't want you to come here" mind you, this fight was not anything serious, and don't think i was being unreasonable. I've told him before that he can't say stuff or i'm really not coming.. so for next 2 days we didn't talk to sleep in the same beds. The last night I was there we finally talked, agreed that it was best we break up.. very civil, we hung out, talked for hours, cuddled and slept together which made leaving very hard for me. Things have been really complicated, at first we weren't talking much but now it seems like we're in a relationship again (we're not) and I feel super confused. We both love each other so much, and it's hard to cut someone off that I planned my foreseeable future with.. What should I do? Is NC the best option? I'm worried it will tear us apart and I'll lose him as my best friend for good Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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