Jerk

[SeaBisquit]

i did what you said and did not call him for a while and then he called me and i acted like he acted when i call him and then my friend called him and he was acting like a jerk towards her. so i talked to him for a while and he asked me to call another time because he was playing a game on the computer so i asked what was more important me or a game and he hanked up on me. What should I do ?

[annie24]

 

 

You're asking what you should do....? By all means, if you like jerks, stay with him, call him back after his computer game.

[Mun]

Well honey,

You are not being treated right and if you put up with it--it will continue. I think this guy is all wrong for you. With that attitude he doesn't deserve a girlfriend.

 

Drop him and find yourself a guy who wants to be with you. If you stay with this one chances are he is always going to treat you this way and it will just get worst. Don't you think you are worth it?

 

I do.

[Luscious]

Communicate with him and let him know that you're not happy b/c of how he treats you and if he doesn't improve or change then it doesn't make sense wasting anymore time with someone that doesn't makes you happy.

 

Your happiness comes first!!!

[RayKay]

He is being selfish and immature, and is definitely not ready for a relationship.

 

Relationships must have foundations of trust and the often overlooked one - RESPECT. He is clearly lacking respect for you. And he will continue to do so as long as you let him.

 

I would call him back after his game and tell him that while he was playing you had lots of time to think about his behaviour, and decided he is not whom you thought he was and you are ending it. Not that I advise phone breakups in general, but he seems jerky and would likely be rather cruel in person. At least this way you can hang up if he starts being a jerk again - and don't feel bad about it either.

 

Set yourself free so someone who deserves and respects you can enter your life!

[kuhl282000]

Hello

 

Do nothing...... let him call you ....don't just sit around waiting for him to call, stay active and get out.

 

 

Kuhl

 

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[SeaBisquit]

thanks do you think i should break up with him and find someone else?

[annie24]

thanks do you think i should break up with him and find someone else?

 

I don't see why this is even a question. You asked what's more important, you or a computer game. Then he hung up. I hope his stupid computer game keeps him warm at night!

 

Yes! Forget him! Is this really what you dreamed about as a little girl? A prince charming who was moody and would hang up on you!?! No, no it's not honey. Yes, I think you should forget this guy, and move onto someone who will treat you right.

[Day_Walker]

Yes you need to break up with him and find another guy who doesnt act immature and selfish.

[marijo2480]

I agree with others in that at the moment that he chose his game over you, you should've ended that relationship. He sounds so immature! Leave him fast!

[tanned_production]

You're better off without him

[mt_joy]

You are SOOOO better off without him. You said it yourself, he's a jerk. Find someone who isn't.