After dating a year, found out she lives with her ex-boyfriend

[anonguy12]

Don't be a fool. If she lied once she will lie again and I'll tell you what's probably going on: She has a boyfriend, lives with him, and you're the side guy. Take it from a psychopath.

[catfeeder]

The question is not whether she's been sleeping with him, the question is why you'd even flirt with the idea of tolerating someone in your life who would lie.

 

Even if you want to forgive this, wouldn't that set you up for doubting everything she ever tells you from this point forward? ..and is that how you want to live?

 

Head high, and walk FORward.

[Tanzi]

Yes, she is liar on the grandest scale. She has two very separate lives going on here where neither one knows about the other (or rather didn't). Her reasons/excuses are fraught with flaws. There is ALWAYS an excuse. Every liar excuses their lies. Every cheat justifies their "cheat".

 

They cheat, they lie. They get caught out, they lie.

 

Why wouldn't they? Lying is second nature to them by now.

 

As I said above, she could have found another room-mate by now. And most people would have if their room mate was now their ex. He was never a room mate anyway. The only reason they would choose to become room mates after having been living together as a couple was if they had now successfully transitioned to "friend"s. However that would also mean they would have absolutely no reason to keep it secret who they were dating. Don''t you see, whichever say you look at it, it doesn't add up. She lied ... BIG TIME ... and she is doing the same now.