greywolf Posted March 17, 2012 Share Posted March 17, 2012 I never said that no one likes that kind of sex, Greywolf. Most men do. Unfortunately ... but that's another topic. I said I feel sorry for the people who choose that for their relationship. A non existent emotional connection most definitely makes sex less fulfilling, at least for people who are in committed relationships, regardless of if they like it rough and kinky. I'm assuming that's what you mean by "porn style" sex? If not, please elaborate because I'm not understanding what your meaning is. I'm sure people whose relationships revolve only around the physicality of each other, enjoy imitating a visual work of fiction. No doubt about that. It's evident you either didn't really read my post, or just wanted to disagree with me. Either way, IF we have a discussion about this, I would sincerely hope it would be in a mutually respectful way. I apologize if my post to you came accross as disrespectful in anyway. That was definitely not my intention, and yes, I did read what you wrote, and I disagree with you because I disagree with you. It has nothing to do with just wanting to disagree for no reason. I suppose the misunderstanding is how we define "porn-style" sex. There are plenty of couples that can follow the acts they see in porn and still have an emotional connection with each other. My emotional connection with my partner has more to do with who he is and not very much to do with what we're doing together. Kinky, rough sex acts do not diminish our emotional connection. That is what I meant. Link to comment
greywolf Posted March 17, 2012 Share Posted March 17, 2012 If you feel that a post is not appropriate for ENA, then you may report it to the moderators. Stay on topic. Link to comment
Lonewing Posted March 17, 2012 Share Posted March 17, 2012 Sorry...got ahead of the thread. Back on topic it is!! I suppose the misunderstanding is how we define "porn-style" sex. There are plenty of couples that can follow the acts they see in porn and still have an emotional connection with each other. My emotional connection with my partner has more to do with who he is and not very much to do with what we're doing together. Kinky, rough sex acts do not diminish our emotional connection. That is what I meant. I'll go one step further and just keep in mind that I have friends who have thrown away very emotional, caring relationships to go back to the kinky sex element that probably very well falls into the realm of abusive sex, because that is what the rest of those relationships were: abusive. Everybody gets their rocks off to a different set of socks, is all I've learned. Link to comment
BellaDonna Posted March 17, 2012 Share Posted March 17, 2012 This thread has run its course. Thread closed. Link to comment
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